advice

advice

Mary Oliver

love + sex

The 8 Most Asked You Need Help Questions, Answered

Love and sex and internalized homophobia and, yes, straight girls.

Heather Hogan —

Jan 14, 2019

advice

sex advice

lesbian sex

You Need Help: How Do I Spice Up My Relationship?

So you’re not looking for anything new… but something has got to change for you to feel more fulfilled in this relationship.

Christina Tesoro —

Jan 10, 2019

advice

Lists/Top 10s

health

“Go The F*ck To Sleep!” 8 Ways to Kick Insomnia’s Ass

Sleep is the magic pill. Gotta get in on that.

Carmen Phillips —

Jan 8, 2019

advice

getting in bed with kristin

friendship

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Advice About Meeting New Friends, Falling for Friends and More!

Happy Thanksgiving from Sam the Cat!

Kristin —

Nov 14, 2018

advice

getting in bed with kristin

celebrities (vapid fluff)

VIDEO! Getting In Bed With Kristin + Andrea Long Chu: There’s Just Nothing Like The Validation Of Strangers

“I just had a crush on myself for like, a month.”

Kristin —

Nov 7, 2018

advice

getting in bed with kristin

celebrities (vapid fluff)

VIDEO! Getting in Bed With Kristin + Mary Lambert: Always Send the Book of Annotated Poetry

Mary and Kristin talked about a million different topics, giggled a lot, and almost made microwave popcorn. Mary also performed a brand new poem, gave a lot of advice, and…

Kristin —

Oct 25, 2018

advice

getting in bed with kristin

friendship

VIDEO! Getting In Bed With Kristin: Facebook Is A Nightmare But Queer Friendship Is A Dream

This week Kristin’s in bed solo to give advice about getting a parent up to speed on what it means to have a non-binary kid, crushes, friendship, Judith Butler, and…

Kristin —

Oct 10, 2018

advice

getting in bed with kristin

love + sex

Getting in Bed With Kristin + Heather Hogan: Buffy, Cats and Jesus

This week Kristin got in bed with Autostraddle senior editor Heather Hogan to talk about queer representation on teevee, spirituality vs. religion and, of course, cats. (And beer.)

Kristin —

Sep 28, 2018

advice

getting in bed with kristin

visual art

VIDEO! Getting in Bed With Kristin + Sophia Wallace: Clits, Shame, and the Patriarchy

Do you know what a clitoris looks like? You will after you watch this video! Learn about clits and so much more by getting in bed with Kristin and Sophia…

Kristin —

Aug 22, 2018

advice

bad behavior

issues

Ask an Adult Lesbian: Get Your Shit Together, Shane

Shane McCutcheon self-sabotages, Emily Fields co-depends, Cheryl Blossom is scared to commit — and a team of real live functional adult queer women are here to help.

The TV Team —

Aug 20, 2018

advice

donald trump is not my president

politics + activism

So You Want to Host a Voter Registration Drive

There are few better paths to saving the republic than getting your fellow Americans registered. But where do you even start? Right here!

Carrie —

May 17, 2018

a-camp

a-camp spring 2018

health

Nervous About A-Camp? Let’s Do Some Grounding

What I’m getting at here is that staying grounded (even though it sounds like an oxymoron) gives you the ability to move.

A. Tony Jerome —

May 14, 2018