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I’m In My Thirties and Can’t Make Up My Mind About Having Kids

the team

Feb 16, 2024
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I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else

the team

Feb 9, 2024
coming out

You Need Help: I Can’t Figure Out What I Should Wear and Who I Should Date

Em Win

Mar 15, 2022
dating

You Need Help: I Hate Not Having a Girlfriend

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

Mar 8, 2022
money + work

You Need Help: How Do I Deal With the Inescapable Sexism in My Industry?

himani

Mar 1, 2022
life

You Need Help: Trying To Live Through the Pandemic Is Destroying My Mental Health

himani

Feb 22, 2022
dating

You Need Help: What Does “Going Slow” in a Lesbian Relationship Look Like?

Riese

Feb 8, 2022
friendship

You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has No Friends

Em Win

Feb 1, 2022
lesbian weddings

You Need Help: Your Future In-Laws Won’t Come to Your Wedding

Heather Hogan

Jan 25, 2022
relationships

You Need Help: What If My Mom Hates My Girlfriend?

Ro White

Nov 16, 2021

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friendship

You Need Help: So Your Best Friend Is a SWERF

If you are out to your friend, or are thinking of coming out to her, and she still holds fast to her SWERF-y beliefs even after you explain how it…

Janis Luna —

Jan 10, 2020

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queered & careered

money + work

Queered & Careered: The Many Times Informational Interviews Have Saved Me

Sooo, what are you waiting for? Make a list of ten professionals who inspire you and reach out to them to connect today. We have the tools to uplift and…

Tiara Dee —

Dec 31, 2019

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queered & careered

money + work

Queered & Careered: 5 Ways You Can Use Tarot at Work

Just because, let’s be honest: your workplace could use some queer witchy energy.

Tiara Dee —

Dec 17, 2019

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dating

Unfortunately There Is Such a Thing as Too Much Processing; Here’s How Not To

A hot take: processing literally everything all the time is not only *not good*, it is actually *bad*!

Vanessa —

Nov 26, 2019

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queered & careered

money + work

Queered & Careered: Sussing Out if An Employer is Trash

When you’re queer, every career decision can have consequences for your emotional, mental, or even physical health. Planning ahead, finding support, and asking critical questions about the people and companies…

Tiara Dee —

Nov 19, 2019

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queered & careered

money + work

Queered & Careered: Things to Bring and Leave Behind

Queered & Careered is a column that offers tips and tricks on how to navigate career development as a queer person — from job searching to career inspiration to dealing with…

Tiara Dee —

Nov 5, 2019

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