advice

advice

queer your tech

geekery

Ask a Gay Nerd: Can My Administrator See My YouTube History?

We ask Gay Nerd Cee Webster how to alter search or YouTube history if you’re logged onto your work account…and if that really matters at all.

cee —

Oct 17, 2015

advice

sex advice

lesbian sex

You Need Help: Getting It On After Hip Replacement Surgery

The good news is: your wife’s new hip will probably make your sex life even better! Here’s some tips for easing back into it.

KaeLyn —

Oct 12, 2015

advice

gay marriage

dating

You Need Help: You’re Poly And Married And Want To Date

You can be poly and married and want to date, but no one will know what your deal is until you tell them, so tell them up front.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 8, 2015

advice

greatest hits

breakups

Y’All Need Help #2: You Can’t Avoid Your Ex Forever

Quick and dirty advice for a brand new lesbian in Chicago, a small town bird who’s ready to be in the same room with her ex, and someone who’s tired…

Laneia —

Oct 7, 2015

advice

binder

gender

You Need Help: People Are Nosy About Your Binder

What to do if your friends and family start asking about that new binder you’re wearing.

A.E. Osworth —

Oct 1, 2015

advice

financial planning

money + work

How to Deal With Credit Card Debt and Not Totally Ruin Your Life Forever

We’re here to talk about how to get out of credit card debt or, if that feels too big right now, how to manage your debt in such a way…

KaeLyn —

Sep 28, 2015

advice

mental health

health

How to Stop Biting Your F*cking Nails

There is a world in which your nails do not bleed onto paper and you don’t want to cry from how much it hurts to do anything with your hands…

Fikri —

Sep 18, 2015

advice

college

school

All of the Ultimate Back-To-School Advice for College-Bound Queers

There is literally no incorrect way to do college and Autostraddle staff are the proof.

Maddie —

Aug 27, 2015

advice

Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey

relationships

You Need Help: Is She “The One”?

HOW WILL YOU EVER KNOW?

Ryan Yates —

Aug 24, 2015

advice

everyone is gay

af+

A+ Podcast Episode Five: OMG SHUTUP!

Autostraddle senior editors and Everyone is Gay gave advice to live audience members at A-Camp 2015. Listen to their hilarious and thoughtful words of wisdom to queer girl problems!

the team —

Aug 22, 2015

advice

we are adults now

health

An Open Letter to Everyone Afraid of Failure

“What are you doing/do you want to do with your life? Sit with yourself, your love, your horrors, your victories, and your losses. Prioritize the answers to those questions that…

Helen —

Jul 21, 2015

advice

financial planning

money + work

How to Get a Credit Card and Not Totally Ruin Your Life Forever

All credit cards are not created equal. Here’s what you want to look for in a new card or your very first card.

KaeLyn —

Jul 16, 2015