13 Days of A+ Archives

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What If It’s a Woman?

“We spoke up. Hell, this was post-#MeToo era. We were heroes. I was… a hero. So, why did I feel so much shame when, a year later, a woman sexually…

Motti —

Dec 14, 2023

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Anonymous Sex Diary: She Wants More

“My partner and I have an open relationship. While we used to be really honest about things, when I met someone I actually liked, E, they decided they didnt want…

Guest —

Dec 13, 2023

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Welcome to the 13 Days of A+ of 2023!

For the FOURTH year in a row, we are bringing you 13 consecutive days of A+ content!

Nico —

Dec 13, 2023

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Now A+ Members Can Take shea’s “Writing Yourself Home” Workshop at Your Own Pace

Writing Yourself Home is a special generative workshop for writers of all ages that honors the complexities of what constitutes “home.”

Nico —

Feb 10, 2023

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13 Days of A+ 2022: The Editor’s Notes are Screaming Internally

Pobody’s nerfect.

Nico —

Dec 25, 2022

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A Very Special Senior Team Holigay Recipe Roundup

We’ve got cookies, gravy, cake, pasta, sausage balls and two separate and very different alcoholic beverages.

The Editors —

Dec 23, 2022

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Today at 11am PST / 7pm GMT: Get Lost & Delirious with Sally!

Swords! Lesbians! Falconry! It’s time to watch-along with Sally during a very special event set at a time that should actually be convenient for our friends in Europe.

Nico —

Dec 22, 2022

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A+ Roundtable: Times That Bringing a Partner (or Yourself) Home for the Holigays Got Awkard

“My mom loves to do stockings with socks and chocolates and lottery tickets in it. This is perfect for me, a person who both always needs socks and to win…

the team —

Dec 20, 2022