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When the pandemic hit, I suddenly got really into fashion and dressing up. I also gained weight throughout 2019 – 2020, so I needed to upgrade my wardrobe. Though I’m a total grinch, one of my favorite fashion seasons is the holiday season. I love the reds and browns of fall and the metallics of the December holiday season! I love being the sexy one at the holiday party!

Dressing a plus-sized body is hard, especially if you’re a femme. The fashion for us is at once infantilizing and yet bland. Sexy for many plus-sized fashion retailers looks like that little shoulder cut-out they force into a perfectly fine shirt. Or culottes. Or hideous florals. It feels like retailers are stuck in the What Not To Wear era of fashion for fat bodies that includes A-line skirts and items that mask the body instead of accentuating what we love about ourselves. It also is pretty hard to find retailers that make plus-sized clothing above a 3X or a size 22, so I’ve tried to highlight brands that make clothes for bodies that are above a 3X or can make custom pieces tailored to your body. The call for inclusive sizing in fashion is important and necessary!

I often get complimented on my clothing and overall style, and I have a great eye for things that fit me, so I feel qualified to make this list. Here are some looks that will make you the best dressed at your family get-together, your office party, or your solo celebration.

ThanksGIVING

For Thanksgiving, I wanted to present looks that combined all the colors I love from fall. Here are pieces that can be worn throughout the season with staples and some creative, bold numbers. If you plan to celebrate the holiday the traditional way as many people do, you may plan to eat…a lot. So something that fits your body with a little stretch here and there is ideal for comfort.

Hot Looks for the Cold

Outfit A:

A Plus Size Holiday Fashion Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A collage of a sweater, a wide legged pant, and a black skirt
1. ASOS Cream V-neck Fluffy Sweater ($36) // 2. Vista Wide Leg Pant in Antique Bronze from Mien ($98) or 3. Loud Bodies Black Tencel Skirt ($70)

Outfit B:

A Plus Size Holiday Fashion Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A collage of a turtleneck and a leather skirt
1. Universal Standard Cloud Silk Turtleneck in Dusty Rose ($138) 2. J Brooks Faux Leather Skirt ($30)

Outfit C:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A person wearing a short sleeved pink jumpsuit
Mien Flutter Sleeve Jumpsuit in Plush Mauve ($148)

Outfit D:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A person in a black A-line dress
Loud Bodies Michelle Linen Dress in Black ($110)

December Holiday Season

For the December holiday season, I envisioned things that will keep you warm or make you stand out, because a hoe never gets cold. Whether you’re a jeans and sweater type or a show stopper, these shops will have something for you.

Metallics

Outfit A:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A person in a gold sequen pant and top set
ELOQUII Sequin Wide Leg Trouser ($100) + Top ($100)

Outfit B:

A Plus Size Holiday Fashion Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A collage of a black turtleneck and a sequined pant
1. Black Essential Turtleneck from Big Bud Press ($58) // 2. ELOQUII Multi-Sequin Trouser ($100)

Outfit C:

A Plus Size Holiday Fashion Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A collage of a long silver dress with a slit and a faux fur bomber jacket
1. ELOQUII Sparkle Slip Dress with Slit ($100) // 2. Faux Fur Bomber from Hilary MacMillian ($325)

Outfit D:

A Plus Size Holiday Fashion Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A rose colored jumpsuit and a bright red trenchcoat
1. Universal Standard Jumpsuit in Fig ($178) // 2. The Sloane Trench by Hilary MacMillian ($325)

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Outfit A:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A velvet spaghetti strap dress dress
Rachel Spaghetti Strap Velvet Dress from Dia & Co ($134)

Note: This also can be worn with a faux fur bomber jacket in a different color.

Outfit B:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A color block sweater and a pair of high rise skinny jeans
1. J Brooks Boutique Lilly Colorblock Sweater ($30) // 2. Universal Standard Joni Highrise Skinny Jean ($98)

Outfit C:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A collage of a teal sweater, off white pants, and colorful printed pants
1. ELOQUII Sweater with Novelty Stitch in Teal ($65) // 2. Big Bud Press Western Pants in Off White ($90) or 3. Ulla Popken Printed Palazzo Pant ($56)

Outfit D:

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: A white linen shirt with a large bow detail, black pants, and a bright red trench coat
1. Loud Bodies Celie White Linen Shirt ($165) // 2. Universal Standard Ponte Black Pants ($94) // 3. The Sloane Trench by Hilary MacMillian ($325)

Mariah Carey Approved

Holiday Lookbook For Fat Femmes: Three red form fitting dresses
1. Igigi Ambrosia Dress in Bourdeaux ($198) // 2. X plus Wear Split Off Shoulder Dress in Red Wine ($55) // 3. X Plus Wear Solid Color Split Dress in Red ($53)

Some of these brands are more affordable than others, so I’ve tried to find high-end stuff that will last from shops that accept Afterpay or Klarna as an option to split up payments. A lot of these pieces can be mixed and matched, so find the look that works for you!