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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Osé 2

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Pop Culture Fix: Aspirational Exes St. Vincent and Carrie Brownstein are Making a Comedy About Themselves

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In a two fold collage, left to right: Jamie Clayton peaks behind Kate Moening's shoulder, both are wearing masks, in a black and white photo. Then Leisha Hailey is in a color photo in a blue mask, she's in front of a film camera.

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No Filter: Generation Q Is Really Coming Back! We Did Not Dream It!

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Book cover art for "A Desolation Called Peace". Illustration of a figure looking out of a large geometrically paneled window, where a large saturn-like object floats in a dazzling burst of light and red smoke. Text reads "A Desolation Called Peace — Arkady Martine" "A mesmerizing debut... it left me utterly dazzled." — The New York Times Book Review on A Memory Called Empire. The second slide is a selfie of the author, Arkady Martine, blue eyes staring directly at camera, red hair in soft waves around her face.

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My advice for folks who KNOW that they want to break up with their partner is almost always the same: Break up with your partner!

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In The Owl House, Luz and Amity Capture the Singular Queer Experience of a Surprise First Crush

Luz and Amity don’t just represent a possibility, or offer recognition. In them, I see a reflection of exactly who I used to be.

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