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Sex Toys

How to Bring Butt Plugs Into Your Lesbian Sex Life

Regardless of gender and sexuality, everybody’s got a butt. Here’s how to try butt plugs for the first time, how to add butt plugs to lesbian sex, and how to find the butt plug that’s right for you.

Ryan Yates April 3, 2018 5 Comments
Comedy

Why Did Applebee’s Destroy the Lesbian Love Story in Their New Take-Out Commercial?!

And the whole time they’re beaming at each other in this thunderstorm, let me remind you, Melissa Etheridge is crooning a song that features the lyrics, “I don’t care what they think. I don’t care what they say. What do they know about this love, anyway?”

Heather Hogan April 3, 2018 44 Comments
The Scene

PHOTOESSAY: It’s Your First Time at Dinah Shore

From afar (and also from close-up, let’s be real), Dinah looks like a sea of lesbians whilin’ out getting sunburnt. Now, that’s either your dream or your hell depending on your feelings about sun, pools, and parties.

Molly April 3, 2018 16 Comments
Movie Features

30 Days of Carol: Day 29 – An Edible Arrangement for the Person Responsible for Cutting the Richard Scene

This is a real offer with zero terms or conditions.

Erin April 3, 2018 32 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Grace Ellis’ “Moonstruck Vol 1” Is as Magical and Uplifting as a Levitation Spell

What at first seems like a pretty straightforward coffee shop fantasy love story quickly becomes a daring adventure about embracing and celebrating diversity and the things that make you unique.

Mey April 3, 2018 4 Comments
Book Lists

8 Dark Lesbian Mysteries and Thrillers That’ll Give You Deep Chills

These dark mysteries and thrillers featuring lesbian and bisexual main characters focus less on the romance and more on the hair raising on the back of your neck.

Casey April 3, 2018 19 Comments
lena waithe in ready player one
Movie Reviews

Lena Waithe’s Superstardom Reaches New Heights in “Ready Player One”

Whether you think Ready Player One is a cynical cash-grab or nostalgic ecstasy, the film answered the story’s main question in real life: Who deserves a seat at the table that shapes the story that shapes the world?

Heather Hogan April 2, 2018 4 Comments
Relationships

Monday Roundtable: The Real and Fictional Couples Who Inspired Our Very First Relationship Goals

Whether we saw them on screen or in real life, we took notice of these dynamic couples and their undeniable chemistry and love.

the team April 2, 2018 61 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best First Kiss: Elite 8

How will you ever choose?!

Natalie April 2, 2018 56 Comments
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Alyson Stoner Likes Girls: Former Disney Star Comes Out in Touching Personal Essay

Alyson Stoner, who rose to fame through dancing in music videos and starring on the Disney Channel has come out in a beautifully moving and deeply vulnerable personal essay about falling in love with a woman.

Mey April 2, 2018 9 Comments
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Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for April 2018

April can feel lusciously ripe, but remember to take your time. Be like honey dripping out of a jar. Go so slowly, it’s tormenting.

Corina Dross April 2, 2018 10 Comments
Movie Features

30 Days of Carol: Day 28 – The Original Carol

I didn’t know it when I was younger, but my devotion to Michelle Pfeiffer in One Fine Day would lay the groundwork for my love of The 2015 Oscar Nominated Film Carol.

Erin April 2, 2018 35 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants More Shenny Lesbian Sex Scenes

Confessions of a little spoon, dealing with poly jealousy, Shenny fan-fic, star signs with excellent sexual chemistry, the roots of our out-of-the-ordinary sexual desires and more! #shennystraddle

Riese April 1, 2018 5 Comments
The L Word

Sunday Funday is Shane and Jenny in a League of Their Own

All the good gay news from around the globe this week and how it relates to SHENNY!

Heather Hogan April 1, 2018 20 Comments
The L Word

Everything That Didn’t Happen Because Seasons 3-6 of “The L Word” Were 10th Grade Creative Writing Assignments

“Your assignment is to write about what happens when Sarah Schuster moves back to LA after a brief stay in a psychiatric hospital in her hometown in Illinois.”

Laneia April 1, 2018 36 Comments
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Original Shenny Fan Fiction: “This Is What I Want”

It’s 2017, and married power lesbians Jenny Schecter and Shane McCutcheon face some tough stuff only days before Carmen De La Pica Morales is coming in for a weekend visit that turns out a whole lot cooler than anybody could’ve predicted.

Riese April 1, 2018 37 Comments
The L Word

Laneia’s Team Pick: WATCH IT AGAIN “Shane and Jenny – Forever (Shenny)”

Grab your Dos Equis because it’s time to binge-watch your fave video!

Laneia April 1, 2018 27 Comments
The L Word

21 Shenny Icons

icons below the cut :)

Sarah April 1, 2018 46 Comments
Webcomics

Some Things: Fair Warning

We all have things we’d go back and tell ourselves.

Cameron March 31, 2018 12 Comments
Gender

Trans Day of Visibility Roundtable: Letters to the Trans People Who Shaped Us

“You make me proud to be Mexican, proud to be fat, proud to be queer and proud to be trans. You make me proud to be myself. I love you and thank you.”

the team March 31, 2018 8 Comments
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