Monday Roundtable: Hey Bad Spender
“I think I’m willing to do this because I’m constantly aware that death awaits us all and I’m more inclined to want to heighten an experience if I can.”
Ask an Adult Lesbian: Get Your Shit Together, Shane
Shane McCutcheon self-sabotages, Emily Fields co-depends, Cheryl Blossom is scared to commit — and a team of real live functional adult queer women are here to help.
Sunday Funday Thinks Crop Tops Make You Gay
The WNBA, 28-year-old lesbian mayoral candidates, Young MA and Nikki Minaj, gay games, and more!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How To Be A Great Third
How to be great at a threesome with a couple. Plus what if someone you’re dating is kinkier than you are, why sex ed should be about facts not feelings, what to do about frequent UTIs and more.
Some Things: Kids
Have you ever thought about what your kids would look like?
Femme Brûlée: Vegan Berry Muffins
I’m not quite ready to say goodbye to summer, especially ’cause I realized I haven’t written a summer berry recipe for my vegan friends yet!
Boobs on Your Tube: Lesbian Love Persists on “Younger” and “Ackley Bridge”
Plus: Updates on General Hospital and Younger; and Insatiable is as horrifying as you’ve heard.
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Do You Believe In Curses Because I Sure Do
Today, I want to talk about curses. I want to talk about whether or not you believe in them, the last time you experienced a Cursed Time in your life. And I want to talk about that because I am experiencing what I think is a curse right the fuck now.
The Comment Awards Are Brewing Beer to Make Men Sad
Every day we stray further from Darren.
Things I Read That I Love #270: You Will Be Left With Nothing But Blank Flat Envy
Topics include the future of reproduction, getting sober and realizing that you’re trans, rape kits and rape culture, the McDonalds Monopoly heist, high-brow true crime, tiny hotels, food delivery theory and so much more!
“The Miseducation of Cameron Post” Director Desiree Akhavan Makes Queer Women’s Movies Because She Just Loves Queer Women
“I want to prove that money can be made off of women’s sexual stories. It’s not just a queer thing. It’s about women receiving pleasure, and giving pleasure. It’s still completely taboo.”
Bra as a Top: When It’s Too Hot to Wear an Entire Shirt
You have two options: duct-tape a bunch of ice packs to your torso, or wear a bra as a top.
TV Team Roundtable: Our Favorite Lesbian and Bisexual Girls Behaving Badly
“My armor was a smile, Santana’s was an insult. And bless her for it.”
Lez Liberty Lit: Literary Manspreading, Now for Women Too
Fighting words about literary organizational systems. Plus animals that break into libraries, writers on the books that inspire them, new poetry from Indigenous women and more.
She Never Liked Me Anyway
Dementia used to be called madness, I was told.
Straight People Watch: Summer 2018
It’s dark in here and I’m scared!
I Made All My Friends Reenact The Planet from “The L Word” Again and Can Whoever Killed Jenny Please Come Kill Me
Mamma Mia, here we go again! It’s season two of The L Word and I want to die!
No Filter: Cara Delevingne’s Other Big News Is She’s Joan Collins’ Goddaughter, Apparently
Also, Stephanie Beatriz glams out in front of some shrubbery and Janelle Monáe is here to ruin your afternoon.
A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance
In this queer sex diary: long-distance FaceTime fucking, a dish rack full of sex toys, feeling sad, feeling S.A.D., and feeling goofy and good.
Pop Culture Fix: “Marvel’s Runaways” Season 2 to Feature Just So Much Lesbian Canoodling
Also: Tessa Thompson is your favorite cocker spaniel in the new Lady and the Tramp, Shonda Rhimes really wanted Callie back for Arizona’s last episode, Ruby Rose quit Twitter over Batwoman backlash, Sarah Paulson and Sandra Oh finally met and chatted about how brilliant they both are, and more!