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For Cammie Woodman, Tennis and Transition Go Hand-in-Hand

A year after transition, Cammie Woodman watched Serena Williams play tennis. It changed everything.

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On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

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13 Lesbian Basketball Couples Pulling the Ultimate Power Play

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Andrea Gibson Kept Sincerity Alive

The loss of Andrea Gibson is not just one that rocks the poetry world, but…

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On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

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13 Lesbian Basketball Couples Pulling the Ultimate Power Play

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13 Lesbian Basketball Couples Pulling the Ultimate Power Play

We love it when a current or former WNBA player dates another women’s basketball player! Here are eleven couples still going strong and being tall.

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Andrea Gibson Kept Sincerity Alive

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In the autumn of 1977, I met the partner of my dreams, and we’ve been sailing through life together ever since.

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You Need Help: My Partner Keeps Saying We’re Going to Break Up!

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A Darker Wilderness: Black Nature Writing from Soil to Stars, edited by Erin Sharkey, featuring a Black girl in an open field holding a plate in outstretched arms

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“A Darker Wilderness” Carves a Space for Blackness in Nature

I held these words close as I walked through my neighborhood in a town named after perhaps the most famous colonizer in the Americas.

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Feb 14, 2023

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Word Search: Queen Latifah’s Reign

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Queer Indigenous Musician Black Belt Eagle Scout Talks “The Land, The Water, The Sky”

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Pop Culture Fix: Brittney and Cherelle Griner Are the Super Bowl MVPs of Our Heart

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