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Sliced bread, eggs, pancakes, and bacon, accompanied with photos of people hanging out in Standee's in Chicago around 2009.
First Person

Take Me Back to Standee’s

For many of us, Standee’s was one of the first public spaces where we could openly and comfortably share our most authentic gender expression.

Ro White August 9, 2022 11 Comments
The Bruising of Qilwa by Naseem Jamnia features an illustrated hand reaching toward a kingdom.
LGBT Book Reviews

“The Bruising of Qilwa” Review: A Trans and Queer Fantasy Novella That Packs a Punch

The short book by Naseem Jamnia is an extremely fast-paced, engaging read.

Abbie Jones August 8, 2022 2 Comments
Jazmin on her wedding day
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 414 Recap: Love Is (Not?) A Lie

Let’s take a look at these Good Trouble couples and try to answer the eternal question: Is love a lie??

Natalie August 8, 2022
Two bodies with cherries for heads embrace in a cup of Coke. Bacon soars behind them.
First Person

High School and Everything After

You can’t be gay in 1999. But I’m not, so that’s just fine.

Darcy August 8, 2022 23 Comments
Sue Bird #10 of the Seattle Storm acknowledges fans before her last regular season home game of her career against the Las Vegas Aces at Climate Pledge Arena on August 07, 2022
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Sue Bird Smooches Megan Rapinoe, Shouts Out Seattle Gay Bar in Final Home Game

A new queer era for Doctor Who, #SaveGentlemanJack flash mobs Shibden Hall, Paper Girls’ gayness succeeds where Stranger Things fails, HOCUS POCUS CEREAL, and more!

Heather Hogan August 8, 2022 8 Comments
A woman with long brown hair wears light pink lipstick and a light blue button up shirt that's unbuttoned at the top stands against a grey background. Her face and chest are covered in blank yellow Post-it notes.
Parenting & Family

Queer Co-parenting Helped Me Unlearn Everything TV Taught Me About Family

Queer parenting insists that parenting is a verb, an action and identity available to any and all adults who take on a shared responsibility.

Kate August 8, 2022 5 Comments
Jodi Balfour wears a pink dress and holds hands with Abbi Jacobson, who she is engaged to and who is wearing a red dress at the League of Their Own premiere red carpet.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Abbi Jacobson Is Engaged! Happy “A League of Their Own” Week to All Who Celebrate

Abbi Jacobson and FIANCÉE Jodi Balfour made their red carpet debut together at the Los Angeles premiere of A League of Their Own.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 8, 2022 11 Comments
A plate of french toast with strawberries, surrounded by a bunch of eyes.
First Person

Opening Up at a North Country Diner

I never got used to the cold, North Country weather.

Lily Alvarado August 8, 2022 9 Comments
The diners from Grease, Gilmore Girls, Twin Peaks, and Riverdale
Quizzes

Quiz: What Diner From Pop Culture Are You?

It’s Diner Week, and we’re asking an important question: What famous cinematic diner are you?

Darcy August 7, 2022 22 Comments
a plate of red sauced ravioli. a pair of legs are emerging from one of the ravioli with a pair of crutches. there's also a mobility cane and a set of legs with a leg brace and crutches.
First Person

Scenes From a Jersey Diner

This is what it means to be from New Jersey. The roughness around the edges isn’t hidden away or sugar-coated.

Katie August 7, 2022 26 Comments
An old television screen shows an image of eggs and bacon. Behind it are planets and rock formations. There is a meatball with red onion for its rings, looking like Saturn. A hand holds a remote.
First Person

Welcome to Diner Week — What Are You Having?

Welcome to Diner Week, a 12-part series of essays by Autostraddle writers and editors set in diners.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 7, 2022 15 Comments
Geekery

Pokémon as Lesbian Movies

It’s been a rough week; have some Lesbian Pokémovies. 

Heather Hogan August 6, 2022 7 Comments
Webcomics

Reine #37: Unrestrained Summer Fun

There’s more to life than work. Fight for the four day work week, paid vacation, flexible hours! Get out there!

Ren Strapp August 6, 2022 4 Comments
Zaara accuses Junior of stealing her earbuds. She's wearing a blue flannel top over a short white tank top and black pants.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “Grown-ish” Trades a Performative Lesbian Lovefest for Nacho Night

Plus updates on The Chi, For All Mankind, Only Murders in the Building, Roswell, and American Horror Stories.

Valerie Anne and Natalie
August 5, 2022 3 Comments
A still from They/Them in which Veronica [Monique Kim], a bisexual Asian woman with dyed red and black hair buzzed short on one side and Kim [Anna Lore] a white lesbian with long blonde hair, sit on a dock on a lake at a gay conversion camp. They have looks of deep concern and worry on their faces.
Movie Reviews

“They/Them” Review: Peacock’s New Queer Slasher Is Too Timid for Its Talented Cast

For a movie that bills itself as a queer empowerment film, there is neither enough fighting back nor enough in-your-face queerness.

Nico August 5, 2022 9 Comments
Raptor Boyfriend characters, including a raptor on a skateboard, a winged fairy holding a book, and a teenage bigfoot.
Geekery

“Raptor Boyfriend” Video Game Review: You’re a Cryptid? That’s Cute

Queer dating sim “Raptor Boyfriend” lets you pursue the cryptid of your dreams.

Julie Gentile August 5, 2022 2 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Know: Lesbians Find a Way

(Jeff Goldblum voice) “Lesbians… uh, find a way.”

Darcy August 5, 2022 4 Comments
The cover art for Renaissance by Beyoncé features Beyoncé on an iridescent horse.
Music

Beyoncé’s “Renaissance” Is an Unapologetic Dedication to Blackness and Queerness

I’ve grown to see sampling, when done well, as a love language, a way to remain connected to our history and communicate with the musical innovators who shaped, and continue to breathe life into, our culture.

Amari Gaiter August 5, 2022 3 Comments
a nonbinary Black person smiles a small smile against a colorful glass artwork backdrop. text reads Into the A+ Advice Box
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid

Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!

the team August 5, 2022 26 Comments
A figure is reclining on the ground against a purple, watery background
First Person

Here’s How Our Lives Have Improved Since Quitting Drinking: A Candid Conversation Between Sober Queers

“I love that sober sex is so much better for me. Even masturbating is better.”

danijanae, Analyssa and Tracy Levesque
August 5, 2022 11 Comments
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