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AF+

It’s the 2023 A+ Trivia Quiz of the Year!

Which Bachelorette star admitted she’d snagged a bachelorette of her own this August?

Sally December 25, 2023 12 Comments
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Health

Alyson Stoner on the Power of Movement and Queer Joy

“One of the most beautiful things, especially in the queer experience, is joy.”

motti December 25, 2023 2 Comments
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Holigays

Holidays Are for Best Friends, Teletubbies, and Arthur

Every holiday season, I revisit 2000’s Arthur’s Perfect Christmas and its lessons about friendship.

Em Win December 25, 2023 1 Comment
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword is a Femininomenon

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Rachel December 25, 2023 1 Comment
Christmas Movie Reviews

Hallmark’s “Friends and Family Christmas” Is The Cheesy Holiday Romance Sapphics Deserve

“Friends and Family Christmas is everything that those of us who want an easy, cheesy Christmas romcom could ask for. Low stakes, lots of twinkly lights, and two openly queer actresses playing the romantic leads.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz December 24, 2023 7 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Plan a Christmas Party, and I’ll Give You a Gay New Year’s Resolution

What makes the resolutions gay? Well, because I said so, obviously.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 24, 2023 5 Comments
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Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: “Carol” Finds the Kink in Age Gaps

“I still love the Carol sex scene even if I’ve never been turned on by it per se.”

Drew Burnett Gregory and Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
December 23, 2023 2 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #55: Vacation Injection

How many queers does it take to administer hormones to a friend?

Ren Strapp December 23, 2023 2 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword Knows the Lyrics, I Swear

I just published a book on reverse psychologist.

Emet Ozar December 23, 2023 2 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: The Season Two Finale of “Rap Sh!t” Is Jonica Booth’s Best Performance to Date

Also: the season finale of Beacon 23.

Valerie Anne and Natalie
December 22, 2023 1 Comment
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Book Features

Things I Read That I Love #333: Erewhon, Melrose Place, The Bowel Unit, Blurred Lines and Crosswords

Ruby Tandoh on selling the seaside, nobody knows what’s happening online anymore, Caity Weaver looks for Tom Cruise near the airport, Patricia Lockwood takes her husband to the Bowel Unit, a journey through the annals of “Blurred Lines,” we ask if crosswords can be more inclusive and more longreads for your weekend.

Riese December 22, 2023 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Survivor Season 45’s Finale Shows Us That Sometimes Winners Win

The Survivor finale was better than I thought it would be, to be honest!

Anya Richkind December 22, 2023 2 Comments
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Christmas Movie Features

My Favorite Queer Christmas Movie Is “How To Blow Up a Pipeline”

Yes, it’s a Christmas movie actually. Let me explain.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 22, 2023 6 Comments
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Comedy Holigays

25 Things To Do if You Need a Break From Your Family This Holiday Weekend

8. Go down a social media rabbit hole trying to figure out what your favorite high school English teacher is up to.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 22, 2023 5 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword is Really Going Through It

I have an allergy to cheddar cheese.

Kate Hawkins December 22, 2023 1 Comment
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Politics + Activism

“Queer People Are No Friends to Israeli Apartheid”: LGBTQ+ Artists Sign Open Letter for Palestine

The letter also crucially includes a commitment to a cultural boycott of Israel.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 21, 2023 35 Comments
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AF+

Into the AF+ Advice Box #95: ANXIETIES

Whether it’s anxiety about driving, being perceived as younger at work, bodies and sex, pregnancy, or socializing — we’ve got you with some queer advice!

the team December 21, 2023 7 Comments
Comedy Holigays

I Think I Accidentally Bought My Fiancée a Haunted Music Box for Christmas

Who knew the vintage clown music box that inexplicably plays “Memories” from the musical Cats would be haunted?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 21, 2023 10 Comments
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Life

Gay People: I Need Us To Care About Palestine

“In a world where it is clear that the nation-state is an outdated model that cannot hold us down, that cannot protect us, I ask: what do we owe each other? What do we owe the land? How do we protect each other, and the land, in this increasingly turbulent time?”

Fatimah Asghar December 21, 2023 16 Comments
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Sports TV Reviews

“Under Pressure” Re-Centers the Identity of the U.S. Women’s World Cup Team

Netflix’s “Under Pressure” begins the work of re-establishing the USWNT as more than just pawns in someone else’s narrative. And to that, I can only say: LFG.

Natalie December 21, 2023 3 Comments
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