“Ok someone had previously asked if Autostraddle was going to write a piece on How To Build a Sex Room and I did not realize it was a SHOW I just thought someone was requesting extremely specific DIY content?????”
I thought that by 35, I’d be married. I thought by 35, I’d have kids. I thought I’d be straight.
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“How is Bud Lite like having sex in a canoe?”
Amanda Kramer’s new film, Please, Baby, Please, is an exploration of gender entirely on its own terms, entirely on our terms. It’s a relief to be spoken to with such complexity and humor.
The plotline, the script, and the direction of the film are all critical of not only the colonialism of the early U.S. settlers, but also of the U.S. military, of the Christian church, and, of course, of the masculinity of those who think participation in any of these things makes them more righteous than anyone else.
“i don’t know if i’m bisexual or a lesbian but i am a girlkisser so jot that down”
In 2004, there were two queer slashers making the festival rounds. But you’ve probably only heard of one.
“This is the most urgent I have ever felt”
Did I figure it out?
But sometimes it shows its work on only the most basic level.
All other American-style light lagers taste bad (and therefore are straight).
One dark and stormy night, like so many queer people before me, I eagerly introduced a friend to the world of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
There is a haunting that black girls know.
Remembering Leslie Jordan, Phoebe Bridgers loves angry queer youths, Brittani Nichols! Brittani Nichols! Brittani Nichols! and more.
In extremely important “Yellowjackets” news, Tawny Cypress is indeed queer.
Also, King Princess remains undefeated at the tour photo dump!
She keeps me warm. And also: Fiona Apple is a court watcher in Maryland in her spare time (a model citizen, one might say), nine gay ghost stories, and Frog & Toad are cozy queer icons.
At the center of this sprawling international pressure cooker is one person. A masc Black lesbian whose face reminds me of the greatest loves of my life. Who deserves a future, caring, and softness.
When I saw a UFO, I was 18 and it was the night before prom.