That’s something that, no matter how many times I try to wrap my mind around it, never ceases to amaze me. I think we all know that a lot of queer culture is youth obsessed — always looking forward, looking for what’s hot, what’s next. But I’ve always gotten chills at the longevity and strength of our community. Sometimes it’s just about seeing two women hold each other in some dope aviators on a sunny day, you know? Kinky dykes on bikes in black-and-whites. That’s what magic is made of.
That’s the inspiration for this list. Simple. And I hope it brings you some happiness today.
I don’t usually include the full Getty description in captions for photos when we do these lists, as opposed to focusing solely on the photographer’s credit, however I’m making an exception this time because I think the full description really adds to time and place.
1980
Gwenn Craig, of San Francisco, CA, holds aloft a poster reading ‘Black Lesbian Feminist’ during final session of Democratic Convention, New York, US, 14th August 1980. UPI fwl/Stewart (Photo by Bettmann via Getty Images)
1981
(Original 1981 Caption): Tennis star Billie Jean King, who recently admitted she once had a lesbian affair with her former secretary, deals with a heckler 7/12 with a brief lecture and an uplifted middle finger. After the match at Los Cabelleros Racquet and Sports Club, Mrs. King said it was the first time a fan had bothered her publicly about the relationship with Marilyn Barnett since she confirmed the affair at a news conference.
1982
Two women embrace during the Gay Pride parade in New York City, USA, June 1982. (Photo by Barbara Alper/Getty Images)Gay Pride Day in New York City, June 1982. One woman wears a t-shirt with the slogan ‘How dare you assume I’m straight’. (Photo by Barbara Alper/Getty Images)Gay Pride Day in New York City, June 1982. One sign reads ‘Lesbians are womin loving womin’. (Photo by Barbara Alper/Getty Images)The Duchess bar in the West Village, during the Pride Parade (later the LGBT Pride March) in New York City, June 1982. A banner reads ‘In memory of the voices we have lost: Lesbian Herstory Archives’. Amongst the photographs are images of Eleanor Roosevelt and author Radclyffe Hall. (Photo by Barbara Alper/Getty Images)
The Gay Pride March on Fifth Avenue, New York City, USA, 1984. (Photo by Peter Keegan/FPG/Archive Photos/Getty Images)Among a crowd on the grass outside the Civic Center, two women share a smile together during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 24, 1984. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Two women smile as they hold hands and march on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 24, 1984. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)A woman smiles as she carries a sign that reads ‘I Raised One Great Dyke’ and marches along Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 24, 1984. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images) (Editor’s Note:Technically this woman is not a lesbian, but c’mon, I had to.)Two women raise their fists as they watch marchers during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 24, 1984. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)
1985
View of a pair women from the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group as they embrace, seated on a motorcycle before the start of the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of two women, one with her head against the shins of the other, as they sit, with a pet dog on the grass outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Two women (identified only as Bonnie and Laura) lie on the grass and embrace at the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of a group of people seated on the grass outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of two women as they wipe their eyes during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of two elderly women as they kiss on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Portrait of smiling woman, dressed in a sleeveless denim jacket and fingerless gloves, from the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group as she spreads out her hands before start of the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Portrait of two women from the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group seated together on a motorcycle before the start of the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of members of the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group as they ride motorcycles along Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Portrait of a woman from the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group, as she takes photographs before the start of the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 15, 1985. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)
1986
Close-up of two women as they embrace outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Two woman smile as they greet one another on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of a woman, smiling and with her arms wide, on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. Visible behind her is a pickup truck decorated with balloons. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of two women about to kiss one another, outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of two women from the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group as they ride a motorcycle along Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of two women (the woman on the bottom is identified only as Regina) as they kiss one another on the grass outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of a line of women as they lie back in another’s laps, laughing as they raise their arms outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of a couple as they embrace outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 29, 1986. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)
1987
People protest the Papacy’s views on homosexuality at a demonstration during the Pope’s visit to San Francisco in 1987. (Photo by Roger Ressmeyer/Corbis/VCG via Getty Images)View of a bare-breasted marcher (identified only as Mia) hold aloft in a crowd outside the San Francisco City Hall during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of two women as they kiss outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of a smiling couple on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)A normal bedtime scene for a Gay mother and her child. August 26, 1987. (Photo by Brendan Read/Fairfax Media via Getty Images).View of a group of women holding hands as they along Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Two women hold hands as they dance outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Close-up of two women, one kissing the back of the other’s neck outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)View of an unidentified woman, in a t-shirt that reads ‘Old,’ as she steps off a streetcar with a sign that reads, in part, ‘Lesbian and Gay Seniors’ during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 28, 1987. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)
1988
BEVERLY HILLS, CA – 1988: Actress Kelly McGillis poses during a 1988 Beverly Hills, California portrait photo session. McGillis, who has starred in such films as “Witness” and “Top Gun,” was promoting her new movie “The Accused.” (Photo by George Rose/Getty Images)Lesbian women congregate in New Orleans, LA (Photo by: Joe Sohm/Visions of America/Universal Images Group via Getty Images)Lesbian couple on a motorcycle at the 19th annual Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade, Hollywood, CA (Photo by: Joe Sohm/Visions of America/Universal Images Group via Getty Images)A woman, both her arms raised, rides on the back of a motorcycle in the ‘Dykes on Bikes’ group on Market Street during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 26, 1988. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)
1989
(Original Caption) : 1989-Singer/songwriter Melissa Etheridge is shown leaning on the post of a porch in this outdoors portrait. (Photo by Lynn Goldsmith/Corbis/VCG via Getty Images)25th June 1989: Two women wearing “Wife” signs around their necks, smile for the camera, at the 1989 Gay Pride Parade in Greenwich Village, Manhattan commemorating the 20th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots (Photo By Walter Leporati/Getty Images).25th June 1989: Activists from the LGBTQ community ride their motorcycles at the start of the Gay Pride Parade, commemorating the 20th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots in NYC (Photo By Walter Leporati/Getty Images).Amidst a crowd on Market Street, one woman embraces another from behind as they watch the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 25, 1989. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)Portrait of a couple standing forehead to forehead outside the Civic Center during the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, San Francisco, California, June 25, 1989. (Photo by Bromberger Hoover Photography/Getty Images)25th June 1989: Activists from the LGBTQ community ride their motorcycles with fists in the air at the start of the Gay Pride Parade, commemorating the 20th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots in NYC (Photo By Walter Leporati/Getty Images).
If you enjoyed this list (I cannot even begin to tell you how often I smiled while putting this together! Why are we, as a people, so cute??) then I want to let you know that it’s forever been our dream to put together massive photo lists like this one, but for a long time we were not able to do it because photo rights are expensive! And unlike Buzzfeed, where these kinds of lists are common, queer indie media runs on a lean budget. Last year, with the support of our A+ members, we were able to finally get a Getty Images account — but it’s not cheap!
One way that you’re able to support our work this Pride is by spending your gay dollars at home. Jenifer Prince, a queer independent artist, created this exclusive print for Autostraddle — in celebration of gay love and protest across the decades. You can celebrate queer indie art while also supporting queer indie media, and that sounds like a win to me! The print is $36 dollars, and A+ members get a discount on their purchase.
“Kiss-In” print by Jenifer Prince. (The above version is watermarked, real version is not.)
Carmen Phillips is Autostraddle’s former editor in chief. She began at Autostraddle in 2017 as a freelance team writer and worked her way up through the company, eventually becoming the EIC from 2021-2024. A Black Puerto Rican feminist writer with a PhD in American Studies from New York University, Carmen specializes in writing about Blackness, race, queerness, politics, culture, and the many ways we find community and connection with each other. During her time at Autostraddle, Carmen focused on pop culture, TV and film reviews, criticism, interviews, and news analysis. She claims many past homes, but left the largest parts of her heart in Detroit, Brooklyn, and Buffalo, NY. And there were several years in her early 20s when she earnestly slept with a copy of James Baldwin’s “Fire Next Time” under her pillow. To reach out, you can find Carmen on Twitter, Instagram, or her website.
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