Lesbian Weddings Archives

first person

I Don’t Love Gay Marriage but I’m Officiating My Friends’ Gay Wedding

Oh, I love attending weddings. Yes, yes. Flirting with a bridesmaid is like a Top 10 activity for me. But…

Rebecca

Aug 5, 2024

The author (a black woman with short hair) and her wife (a white butch with brown hair) pose against a yellow and green wall on their wedding day with their son.

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

My Wife and I Eloped, but I Still Want a Big Wedding One Day

It feels amazing to call Beth my wife. The thought of not being able to…

Sa’iyda Shabazz

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Feb 14, 2024

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning

Planning a queer wedding isn’t without its complications, especially when you live in a place…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Feb 8, 2024

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

As a plus sized baddie on a budget, I’ve listed these gay wedding outfit options…

Em Win

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Jan 30, 2024

An open web browser with an screenshot of Bette and Tina's wedding from The L Word: Generation Q on it.

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding

I put the date on my website homepage no less than three times because apparently…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Jan 18, 2024

lesbian weddings

My Wife and I Eloped, but I Still Want a Big Wedding One Day

It feels amazing to call Beth my wife. The thought of not being able to marry her because I was too hung up on the perfect wedding, scared me.

Sa’iyda Shabazz —

Feb 14, 2024

lesbian weddings

The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning

Planning a queer wedding isn’t without its complications, especially when you live in a place trying to push LGBTQ folks out of public life.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 8, 2024

lesbian weddings

Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

As a plus sized baddie on a budget, I’ve listed these gay wedding outfit options from least expensive to most expensive. It’s hard to be gay and look cool and…

Em Win —

Jan 30, 2024

so you want to fashion

Photo 1: A periwinkle long-sleeved satin blouse with a pussy bow collar. Photo 2: A keyhole long-sleeved leather-look bodysuit. Photo 3: A sleeveless floral jumpsuit in pink and green. Photo 4: High-waisted zip-front track pants in black.

queer fashion

So You Want To Go to a Wedding

I present to you some items that might inspire you, should you be invited to a wedding or similar dress-up event and you are sick of reaching for the same…

Christina Tucker —

Sep 9, 2022

da brat

celebrities (vapid fluff)

Da Brat’s Wedding Photos Are a Gay Fairytale Designed to Melt the February Ice Around Your Heart

In this post is every photo from Da Brat’s wedding that I could find because Black love is beautiful and we deserve. That is all.

Carmen Phillips —

Feb 24, 2022

advice

you need help

A Black women in a white dresss holding flowers looks lovingily at a white woman in a suit on their wedding day

lesbian weddings

You Need Help: Your Future In-Laws Won’t Come to Your Wedding

It’s obvious you love your fiancé very much, and want to protect them from any agony the world wants to hurl at them. Unfortunately, you mostly can’t. But here’s what…

Heather Hogan —

Jan 25, 2022

love is sometimes not a lie

personal essay

love + sex

Love Is Not a Lie: In Sickness and in Health

“Our wedding plans went on hold when I found myself unable to get out of bed.”

Heather Hogan —

Feb 12, 2021

love is sometimes not a lie

niecy nash

celebrities (vapid fluff)

NIECY NASH DONE WENT AND GOT GAY MARRIED

Yes. Niecy Nash got gay married. Love wins!!

Ari —

Aug 31, 2020

daniel lavery

daniel mallory ortberg

lesbian weddings

Grace Lavery and Daniel M. Lavery’s Wedding Photos Are Pure Queer Joy

All the best weddings have an important thing in common: they manage to capture the spirit of the couple; they paint everyone who loves and cares for them in the…

Christina Tucker —

Jan 16, 2020

ali krieger

ashlyn harris

lesbian weddings

The Full Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris Wedding Video Is Here and No You’re Not Done Crying About It

Come for the vows, stay for more Rapinoe in a tux.

Heather Hogan —

Jan 2, 2020

gay marriage

marriage equality

lesbian weddings

Love That Looks Like Me: Finding My Queer, Non-Binary Place in the Wedding Industry

“And there was Susan and Rachel at the heart of it all, dancing to the band Susan had sworn would play her wedding if she ever got married. As they…

Ainsley —

Nov 2, 2018

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I Don’t Love Gay Marriage but I’m Officiating My Friends’ Gay Wedding

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

My Wife and I Eloped, but I Still Want a Big Wedding One Day

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

LESBIAN WEDDINGS

How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding

lesbian weddings

My Wife and I Eloped, but I Still Want a Big Wedding One Day

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The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning

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Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

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