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Is There a “Right Way” To Have Public Sex?

Your girlfriend loved gym bathroom sex but you’re not so sure you wanna do it again. Also: how to feel…

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Oct 3, 2025

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S L I C K

dom in a short black skirt holds a basket of sex toys with a speech bubble that says "how about DADDY"

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S L I C K: Yes, Daddy

I wanted you to dominate me, Daddy, and you relished the chance. The leather straps twirled through the air as the pain grew sharper and more familiar. It stung hard.…

Ana Valens —

Jul 9, 2020

'zines/magazines

queer flagging

love + sex

Yes I’m Flagging: My Hanky Code Zine Is Ready For You

While we’re figuring out how to communicate six feet apart after months of cruising Lex, I figured it’d be a good time to share my zine Yes I’m Flagging: Queer…

Archie —

Jun 27, 2020

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S L I C K

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S L I C K: Lesson Learned

“Ms. DeLovely, will you please stop by during my office hours?” Your voice stern, but laced with sweet concern. I’m already dripping. Clearly this is a role you were born…

Kiki DeLovely —

Jun 25, 2020

14 Knuckles

first person

14 Knuckles: How Many Knuckles in a Fist

When I teach Rachel how to tie me up and fist me, when I ask her to tell me what to do, when I teach her exactly how I want…

Mat —

May 27, 2020

covid-19

you need help

relationships

You Need Help: Quarantine Smothered My Sex Drive

If you use this opportunity to sharpen your communication, your dynamic will be stronger (and hotter) on the other side of a crisis.

Ro White —

May 26, 2020

NSFW

S L I C K

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S L I C K: Come Inside

I should’ve masturbated in the shower. I need to be pushed against a wall. She smells like the ocean.

Riese —

May 14, 2020

covid-19

kink

sex

Topping From the Bunker: Tips for Long-Distance Kink

Good news: there are no geographic limits to being a kinky slut, and I’m willing to lend you my perverted imagination.

Ro White —

May 11, 2020

14 Knuckles

first person

14 Knuckles: The Bad Domme

The thing is: sometimes I like feeling disposable, like I’m just a bunch of holes that someone else is using for their pleasure. I know I’m fucking powerful, so sometimes…

Mat —

Apr 27, 2020

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Working Girls: Luxury Escort Charlie Levine on the Rise of Women Clients In Sex Work

"Women are so socialized — successfully or not — to be objects of desire, not subjects of desire, on a sexual marketplace."

Riese

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The Mid-30s Divorcées Who Once Built a Sex Throne

From the friend zone to the throne room, a tale as old as time.

Sex/Life —

May 13, 2025

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What’s the Best Time To Have Sex?

8 a.m.? 8 p.m.? Noon? Midnight?! When is the best literal time to have sex? A bunch of queers sound off.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Apr 22, 2025

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epic

25 Streaming Movies With Hot Lesbian Sex Scenes

Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”

Riese —

Jun 11, 2024

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evergreen

Lesbian Sex: Your 15 Favorite Ways To Have It

How do lesbians have sex? Well, we have an actual answer for you: here are the 15 sex acts we consider a regular part of our sex lives.

Riese —

Mar 1, 2024

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