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Is There a “Right Way” To Have Public Sex?

Your girlfriend loved gym bathroom sex but you’re not so sure you wanna do it again. Also: how to feel…

the team

Oct 3, 2025

dom in a short black skirt holds a basket of sex toys with a speech bubble that says "how about DADDY"

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S L I C K: Yes, Daddy

I wanted you to dominate me, Daddy, and you relished the chance. The leather straps twirled through the air as the pain grew sharper and more familiar. It stung hard.…

Ana Valens —

Jul 9, 2020

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Yes I’m Flagging: My Hanky Code Zine Is Ready For You

While we’re figuring out how to communicate six feet apart after months of cruising Lex, I figured it’d be a good time to share my zine Yes I’m Flagging: Queer…

Archie —

Jun 27, 2020

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S L I C K: Lesson Learned

“Ms. DeLovely, will you please stop by during my office hours?” Your voice stern, but laced with sweet concern. I’m already dripping. Clearly this is a role you were born…

Kiki DeLovely —

Jun 25, 2020

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14 Knuckles: How Many Knuckles in a Fist

When I teach Rachel how to tie me up and fist me, when I ask her to tell me what to do, when I teach her exactly how I want…

Mat —

May 27, 2020

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You Need Help: Quarantine Smothered My Sex Drive

If you use this opportunity to sharpen your communication, your dynamic will be stronger (and hotter) on the other side of a crisis.

Ro White —

May 26, 2020

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S L I C K: Come Inside

I should’ve masturbated in the shower. I need to be pushed against a wall. She smells like the ocean.

Riese —

May 14, 2020

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Topping From the Bunker: Tips for Long-Distance Kink

Good news: there are no geographic limits to being a kinky slut, and I’m willing to lend you my perverted imagination.

Ro White —

May 11, 2020

first person

14 Knuckles: The Bad Domme

The thing is: sometimes I like feeling disposable, like I’m just a bunch of holes that someone else is using for their pleasure. I know I’m fucking powerful, so sometimes…

Mat —

Apr 27, 2020

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