Sex Archives

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Is There a “Right Way” To Have Public Sex?

Your girlfriend loved gym bathroom sex but you’re not so sure you wanna do it again. Also: how to feel…

the team

Oct 3, 2025

tops and bottoms

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love + sex

Let’s Talk About (Queer) Sex: So You’re a Top/Bottom/Switch

How have you defined (or not) your role over time? Has it changed, did you at first think you “were” one thing and now you ID differently? how did that…

the team —

Aug 26, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

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love + sex

Oh Duck: The Autocorrect Adds You Need for Better Queer Sexting

A spectre is haunting queer sexting — the spectre of “duck.” Here’s how to fix your autocorrect and what to add to your dictionary for better queer sexting.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 25, 2020

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Queer Erotica

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S L I C K: Jesus Is; A Love Song Part 1

Severed and shamed by their church as teenagers, Danielle and Joanna are reunited years later by the very same song that propelled them into their sexual awakening years ago.

BobbyNicole —

Aug 20, 2020

Anatomy Of A Mango

fatness

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love + sex

Anatomy of a Mango: Flesh

It seems contradictory to say I learned how to view my body as my own by sharing it with strangers and friends, but it is a truth that I revel…

danijanae —

Aug 5, 2020

14 Knuckles

tops and bottoms

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first person

14 Knuckles: Can Two Switches Have Sex?

Can two switches have sex? I think so, and I think there is something beautifully different about having sex with someone with whom sexual options are truly abundant.

Mat —

Jul 30, 2020

Anatomy Of A Mango

fatness

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love + sex

Anatomy Of A Mango: Skin

There is a different level of intimacy and affirmation that I have found when having sex with other fat people. Thin people approach the fat body like a series of…

danijanae —

Jul 21, 2020

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