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10 Years Ago, I Had the Most Chaotic Valentine’s Day Plans Possible

Chicago, Winter 2015. I’m doing a cringe-worthy, cliche version of Living In Chicago In Your Early Twenties.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

Feb 12, 2025

MOVIE LISTS

Lesbian Movies for Every Valentine’s Day Vibe

Whether you’re single, recently dumped, in love, or somewhere in between, we’ve got Valentine’s Day…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Feb 11, 2025

A hand chopping down a tree with an ax, A black person voguing, and Two queer people dancing with balloons around them

ASTROLOGY, TAROT &AMP; WITCHCRAFT

What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?

No matter what zodiac sign(s) are your sweetie(s)’s, it’s probably a good idea to butter…

Nico

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Feb 6, 2024

a paper heart on a wall with words written on it: Note To Self, I love you!!

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I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single

When I think about why Valentine’s Day is so important to me, I find it…

Em Win

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Feb 13, 2023

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Your Zodiac Sign as a Creepy Vintage Valentine’s Day Card

Always. Always. Always compliment a Libra’s outfit. You don’t want to find out what happens…

Nico

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Feb 9, 2023

movie lists

Lesbian Movies for Every Valentine’s Day Vibe

Whether you’re single, recently dumped, in love, or somewhere in between, we’ve got Valentine’s Day lesbian movie recs for you!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 11, 2025

astrology, tarot & witchcraft

What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?

No matter what zodiac sign(s) are your sweetie(s)’s, it’s probably a good idea to butter them up with what they really, really want for Valentine’s Day.

Nico —

Feb 6, 2024

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I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single

When I think about why Valentine’s Day is so important to me, I find it important to distinguish between self-care and radical self love.

Em Win —

Feb 13, 2023

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10 Years Ago, I Had the Most Chaotic Valentine’s Day Plans Possible

Chicago, Winter 2015. I’m doing a cringe-worthy, cliche version of Living In Chicago In Your Early Twenties.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 12, 2025

movie lists

Lesbian Movies for Every Valentine’s Day Vibe

Whether you’re single, recently dumped, in love, or somewhere in between, we’ve got Valentine’s Day lesbian movie recs for you!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 11, 2025

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astrology, tarot & witchcraft

What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?

No matter what zodiac sign(s) are your sweetie(s)’s, it’s probably a good idea to butter them up with what they really, really want for Valentine’s Day.

Nico —

Feb 6, 2024

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I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single

When I think about why Valentine’s Day is so important to me, I find it important to distinguish between self-care and radical self love.

Em Win —

Feb 13, 2023

Trashology

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Your Zodiac Sign as a Creepy Vintage Valentine’s Day Card

Always. Always. Always compliment a Libra’s outfit. You don’t want to find out what happens if you forget.

Nico —

Feb 9, 2023

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sex toy shopping guide

Against a white and pink background covered in hearts, there are seven items: orange briefs covered in cactus print, a stack of pink tinned fish boxes, a brown box of truffles, a cell phone with audio erotica playing on it, a brown glass jar of bath salts with the bath salts exploding out of the top, a blue rose-shaped grinding toy, and a pink beverage in a short glass with rosemary and a slice of grapefruit on top.

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9 Sensual Gifts You Can Get for Your Own Damn Self This Valentine’s Day

Whether you’re single or partnered, you’re allowed to get yourself the gift of a little Valentine’s Day treat.

Ro White —

Feb 9, 2023

a red card with a white heart on it peeping out of a pink envelope. there are three felt red hearts next to it.

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How To Make Valentine’s Day Cards for Your Friends

We’ve been through shit, and sometimes we need to thank the people who got us through it.

Em Win —

Feb 7, 2023

A young Asian woman reclines on a couch listening to music on her smartphone. She is wearing a red dress.

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Playlist: Love Songs Gifted By Exes

I asked some of my friends whether they had any love songs that they still love today, originally given to them by exes.

Analyssa —

Feb 13, 2022

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10 Years Ago, I Had the Most Chaotic Valentine’s Day Plans Possible

MOVIE LISTS

Lesbian Movies for Every Valentine’s Day Vibe

ASTROLOGY, TAROT &AMP; WITCHCRAFT

What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?

VALENTINE'S DAY

I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single

VALENTINE'S DAY

Your Zodiac Sign as a Creepy Vintage Valentine’s Day Card

movie lists

Lesbian Movies for Every Valentine’s Day Vibe

astrology, tarot & witchcraft

What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?

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I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single

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