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I Think My Girlfriend Is Drugging My Dog

In this week’s advice box, a relationship plagued by dog problems and possible dishonesty, how to support a partner convinced they’re worthless without a job, and safe sex for poly…

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Mar 22, 2024

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Help! My Friends Won’t Shut Up

Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.

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Mar 15, 2024

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Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?

In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a…

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Mar 8, 2024

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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?

In this week’s AF+ Advice box: trying to figure out if you’re trans or a masculine lesbian, finding good lesbian love poems for a wedding, complicated feelings about an ex…

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Mar 1, 2024

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I Confronted My Girlfriend About Cheating On Me, She Responded By Coming Out as Poly

Is this ever an okay way for a poly relationship to begin?

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Feb 23, 2024

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I’m In My Thirties and Can’t Make Up My Mind About Having Kids

I’ve been thinking about it almost every day lately.

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Feb 16, 2024

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I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else

“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”

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Feb 9, 2024

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Into the AF+ Advice Inbox #97: F(ix) My Life

A troublesome group chat, a moldy shower, being autistic at work, moving cities, and more!

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Jan 26, 2024

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Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College

Will your friend ever want to be something more? Can you be friends with your friend’s ex? The team answers these questions and more!

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Jan 12, 2024

13 Days of A+

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Into the AF+ Advice Box #95: ANXIETIES

Whether it’s anxiety about driving, being perceived as younger at work, bodies and sex, pregnancy, or socializing — we’ve got you with some queer advice!

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Dec 21, 2023

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Into the A+ Advice Box #94: I Don’t Think My Queer Relative Should Get Married

Advice on supporting a partner rejected by their family, non-competitive boardgames, period depression…and more!

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Dec 8, 2023

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Autostraddle + For Them’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2023!

Here’s what the Autostraddle and For Them teams want as gifts this season!

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Nov 24, 2023

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I Think My Girlfriend Is Drugging My Dog

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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?

I Confronted My Girlfriend About Cheating On Me, She Responded By Coming Out as Poly

I’m In My Thirties and Can’t Make Up My Mind About Having Kids

I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else

Into the AF+ Advice Inbox #97: F(ix) My Life

Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College

Into the AF+ Advice Box #95: ANXIETIES

Into the A+ Advice Box #94: I Don’t Think My Queer Relative Should Get Married

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