the team

into the af+ advice box

you need help

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Into the A+ Advice Box #4: Non-Monogamy, Wanting What You Can’t Have, Yearning to Flee the Suburbs and More

We’re back with more questions than ever! And our team is here to give you advice on things like: sexy underwear for masculine-of-center folks, breaking sexual tension with a friend,…

the team —

Sep 26, 2018

a+ roundtable

bad behavior

af+

A+ Roundtable: Forgiven but Not Forgotten

Forgiveness may be an attribute of the strong, but we also have the memory of an elephant.

the team —

Sep 24, 2018

bisexual awareness week

bisexuality

first person

Celebrate Bisexuality Day 2018: Why We Love Being Bisexual and So Can You

“As a kid, a lack of role models made me believe people like me just didn’t grow up — or at the very least, didn’t grow up to be happy…

the team —

Sep 23, 2018

bad behavior

issues

Monday Roundtable: I’m Not Gonna Do It

It’s not gonna happen, buddy.

the team —

Sep 17, 2018

a+ roundtable

bad behavior

af+

A+ Roundtable: The Things We Did for the Money We Needed to Survive

Capitalism! So neat!

the team —

Sep 10, 2018

bad behavior

Monday Roundtable

issues

Monday Roundtable: Breaking Up and Fucking Up

Just some of the many ways we ruin our lives after a breakup.

the team —

Sep 3, 2018

a+ roundtable

bad behavior

af+

A+ Roundtable: If I Could Take It All Back

“I never went into it planning to be a monster, and I think that actually always made it worse.”

the team —

Aug 27, 2018

bad behavior

financial planning

issues

Monday Roundtable: Hey Bad Spender

“I think I’m willing to do this because I’m constantly aware that death awaits us all and I’m more inclined to want to heighten an experience if I can.”

the team —

Aug 20, 2018

a+ roundtable

alcohol

af+

A+ Roundtable: Vice Squad

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

the team —

Aug 13, 2018

a+ roundtable

Roundtables

af+

A+ Roundtable: Our Tops, Our Bottoms, Our Switches, Ourselves

*Law and Order sound* these are our stories — Autostraddle staffers share how they personally identify (or don’t!) and why.

the team —

Aug 7, 2018

"personality cult"

bad behavior

issues

Monday Roundtable: Our Childhood Disobedience, Revisited

“I like to think I’ve put my talking-back skills to great use as an adult who enjoys proving points and getting the last word and being right.”

the team —

Aug 6, 2018

a+ roundtable

bad behavior

af+

A+ Roundtable: What’s Your Relationship Kryptonite?

What types of relationship situations or people are you often drawn to even though you know they’re bad for you and will destroy you?

the team —

Aug 2, 2018