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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Squish, a Cute Little Thing From Unbound

In which three powerful women come together to discuss the same vibrator.

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Apr 20, 2019

Monday Roundtable

Roundtables

celebrities (vapid fluff)

Monday Roundtable: The Celebrity Deaths That Hit Us Hardest

“I remember writing in my journal and feeling a little bit of childhood falling away.”

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Apr 8, 2019

Lists/Top 10s

online dating

dating

10 Queers on What’s Made Them Go for the Second Date

“It didn’t work out, even on that second time, but she was really fun and I thought the haiku was inspired.”

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Apr 4, 2019

Monday Roundtable

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issues

Monday Roundtable: Our Ideal Birthdays

When it’s your birthday, you should get to do whatever you want — here are our requests.

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Mar 25, 2019

Lists/Top 10s

af+

10 Queers on How the F*ck We Deal With Our Exes

“I want to treat everyone who has ever mattered to me with respect, and with a baseline kindness. I know not all my exes feel I’ve done that, but I…

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Mar 21, 2019

Monday Roundtable

Roundtables

issues

Monday Roundtable: Birthmarks

Some of us have birthmarks! How neat. Here are our stories about ours.

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Mar 18, 2019

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community

The Autostraddle Yearbook: A Decade Of Gay Work

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives…

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Mar 11, 2019

Monday Roundtable

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Monday Roundtable: Our Saturn Returns

Your late 20s/early 30s are thought by many to mark your Saturn Return, when Saturn circles back around to the placement it was in when you were born, and generally…

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Mar 11, 2019

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dating

10 Queers Get Honest About Ghosting

Communication is hard, especially when you have to tell someone something they might not want to hear, which is why sometimes we… just don’t do it!

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Mar 7, 2019

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Into the A+ Advice Box #6: Being Out at Work, Surviving “Bisexual FOMO,” and More!

Real life worries from readers like you! Including: coming out at any age, getting comfortable with butt sex, and so many questions about moving! Get ready! It’s a party!

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Feb 25, 2019

Monday Roundtable

Roundtables

issues

Monday Roundtable: Our Worst Birthdays

It’s our party and we’ll cry if we want to — because these birthdays were terrible.

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Feb 25, 2019

online dating

tinder

lesbian dating apps

11 Queers Share the Best and Worst Lines They’ve Gotten on Dating Apps

“’Look a little crazy huh’ with no punctuation.”

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Feb 21, 2019