first person Robin Wright as a Ruthless Monster-in-Law in ‘The Girlfriend’ Gave Me Flashbacks Nico Oct 10, 2025
first person Robin Wright as a Ruthless Monster-in-Law in ‘The Girlfriend’ Gave Me Flashbacks Nico Oct 10, 2025
astrology, tarot & witchcraft Does the Total Solar Eclipse Mean the Sun and Moon Are Scissoring? Are moonbeams legs? Are sun-rays legs? (They are, or are something like it.) And if so, is there an infinite cosmic scissoring unfolding? Nico — Apr 8, 2024
first person Untethered: The Lesbians of Shinjuku Ni-chōme, Tokyo I found a lot of comfort in a sapphic space, even on the other side of the world, and I even found some friends. Nico — Apr 4, 2024
book lists Top 15 Books That Gave Me Weird Ideas About Sex and Pregnancy 2. It would be some years before I got to a place where I truly believed that accidental formaldehyde poisoning was not a main concern when making my foray into… Nico — Mar 10, 2024
first person Untethered: I Can Still Hear My Ex Mother-in-Law’s Voice Last night, while out with a date, my voice pitched too high. I winced internally. There are a lot of complications around this for me. Nico — Feb 22, 2024
breakups Salons and Divorce Doulas: How Queers Are Fighting the Trauma and Stigma of Divorce “I’ve been ostracized, people don’t even know my side of the story. And they just stopped talking to me because they’ve talked to my ex.” Carmen Phillips and Nico — Feb 20, 2024
af+ Editor’s Notes: Divorce Week Being engaged, planning a wedding, being a newlywed — all welcome topics of conversation! Divorce? Not so much! Carmen Phillips and Nico — Feb 20, 2024
breakups Tiny Butch Shoes, Lightly Worn A good pair of boots are LIFE okay??? Is that a gay opinion? Likely. Nico — Feb 18, 2024
celebrities (vapid fluff) Would Robot Zendaya Love Me If I Was a (Sand) Worm? “Dune: Part 1” was not a very queer movie, nor do I anticipate “Dune: Part 2” being so. But the books were one of this queer’s childhood favorites. Nico — Feb 16, 2024
breakups 18 Queer Divorce Horror Stories “We moved across the country for her job while I was pregnant. Turns out she was really having an affair.” Nico — Feb 14, 2024
breakups I Banished My Ex Husband With Witchcraft, and You Can Too A four-person friend group did what anyone who’s seen The Craft might. We got together to cast a spell to banish that man. Nico — Feb 12, 2024
breakups Get in Losers, We’re Getting Divorced Divorce Week is a celebration of taking a life-changing step, of coming out the other side of devastating trauma and being all the better for it. Carmen Phillips and Nico — Feb 12, 2024
love + sex I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s. Nico — Feb 11, 2024
