Summer Tao

sex

I Haven’t Orgasmed During Sex in Five Years and It’s Really Okay

Orgasms never came (hah) easily to me.

Summer Tao —

May 5, 2025

regular

you need help

relationships

‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’

“Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being…

Summer Tao —

Apr 15, 2025

regular

trans women

sex

‘I Am Nervous About Having Sex With My Trans Girlfriend for the First Time’

I would love some insights from other trans women on what to expect when having sex with a trans woman, because I really want her to have a good time…

Summer Tao —

Apr 8, 2025

money + work

We’re Right Here: Finding Connection in My Community of Sex Workers

Whenever I think of the sex workers I befriended, the thing that always struck me is how different we all are.

Summer Tao —

Mar 27, 2025

butch

for them

gender

‘Can Trans Men Be Butches?’

And what makes a butch, butch?

Summer Tao —

Mar 25, 2025

for them

regular

gender

‘I Want To Change My Name Again’

Wanting to change your name now after people have adjusted will not make you a burden.

Summer Tao —

Mar 18, 2025

regular

you need help

gender

‘I’m Lost in the Gender Expression Sauce’

“I always thought, if I weren’t a trans man, I’d be a butch lesbian.”

Summer Tao —

Mar 11, 2025

trans women

health

How Can Trans Women Deal With Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is consistently counted among the most common sexual disorders. It’s also a topic close to my heart (and other organs) because I experience it.

Summer Tao —

Mar 6, 2025

disability

first person

Am I Disabled Enough?

Even after we come to terms with our impairments, we’re still dogged by self-doubt. 

Summer Tao —

Feb 25, 2025

regular

you need help

sex

‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud Afraid of Doing It Wrong’

“Honestly I know I’m straight up lesbian ( stud ) and I’ve been in a few relationships with girls and I always ended it when things were about to get…

Summer Tao —

Feb 25, 2025

lesbian bed death

regular

sex

‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’

“We still kiss, cuddle, and go on dates, but that’s as intimate as it gets.”

Summer Tao —

Feb 18, 2025

video games

geekery

Cozy Games for the People Who Are Already Tired of This Year

Rather than being defined by genre, cozy games are identified by vibes. They’re soft in tone and connect players to themes like friendship and cooperation.

Summer Tao —

Feb 7, 2025