Laneia

coming out a little later

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #28: Being Careful With Your Sex Eyes

Keeping it casual with straight gals, wondering if your kid and divorce will torpedo your lesbian dating life, and feeling disconnected from the queer community post-breakup. Plus some updates from…

Laneia —

Sep 8, 2018

coming out a little later

regular

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #27: But Back to YOU

A ruined friendship, body hair at work, coming out a little later when you’re about to marry a dude, and a frank conversation about assault. We really can have it…

Laneia —

Aug 25, 2018

"personality cult"

Miniseries

first person

These Shirts Aren’t Mine

“I wear this shirt at least three times a week.”

Laneia —

Aug 11, 2018

alsoalsoalso

link roundup

society + culture

Also.Also.Also: Straight ‘Girlfriends’ Continue Plaguing Our Existence and Other Stories Just for Us and Not Them

#Blessed, granny panties, a survey for the southerners, lesbians are getting a lot done, 4-H what the fuck man, Hayley Kiyoko, meet G Flip, and so much more!

Laneia —

Aug 9, 2018

"personality cult"

Miniseries

first person

These Shirts Were Happenstance

“I wanted to not care where I was going that/any day; a girl who’d interrupt her routine for a brush with honesty.”

Laneia —

Jul 28, 2018

"personality cult"

Miniseries

first person

These Shirts Were a Choice

The kind of miniseries that seems like a great idea when your fever is at its highest, truly.

Laneia —

Jun 30, 2018

alsoalsoalso

gay statistics

society + culture

Also.Also.Also: LGBTQ+ Women in the U.S. Most Likely to Identify As Bisexual According to This One Survey

WNBA’s latest activism, nonbinary in the workplace, some new stats on LGBTQ identities, TEENS, Canada puts LGBTQ rights above religious freedom, the future of ‘queer’, plus more!

Laneia —

Jun 18, 2018

a-camp

a-camp spring 2018

camp

8 Times A-Campers Made Cheese Plates and We Were Like, “Wow, Yes”

“The smoked gruyère is pointing to the chèvre, while the brie points to the chocolate. A beautiful puzzle.”

Laneia —

Jun 4, 2018

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #26: Spring Cleaning Part 5

The last round of spring cleaning! Dance like no one’s watching!

Laneia —

Jun 2, 2018

lesbian college life

lesbian feminism

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #25: Spring Cleaning Part 4

Did someone say they needed me to answer 19 questions in one post?? No, they did not, but I did it anyway!!

Laneia —

May 5, 2018

Y'All Need Help

you need help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #23: Spring Cleaning Part 2

30 questions! IS ONE OF THEM YOURS?? Wow!

Laneia —

Apr 7, 2018

april fools day or whatever

in defense of jenny schecter

the l word

Everything That Didn’t Happen Because Seasons 3-6 of “The L Word” Were 10th Grade Creative Writing Assignments

“Your assignment is to write about what happens when Sarah Schuster moves back to LA after a brief stay in a psychiatric hospital in her hometown in Illinois.”

Laneia —

Apr 1, 2018