Chingy Nea

Chingy Nea is a writer, filmmaker, and critically acclaimed ex-girlfriend based out of Los Angeles and Oakland

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the oscars

Doubled images of Julianne Moore putting makeup on Natalie Portman

movie features

Todd Haynes’ Cinema of Sight

May December is a thesis statement of sorts for Haynes’ entire filmography.

Chingy Nea —

Mar 9, 2024

amazon prime video

horror

Anne in Knife+Heart wears a black vinyl trenchcoat

movie features

“Knife + Heart” and the Thin Line Between Desire and Destruction

If they couldn’t appreciate porn as art, I couldn’t trust they’d see a slasher set in the world of its production as anything but a cheap thrill.

Chingy Nea —

Oct 30, 2022

sex

How to Cruise for the Casual Lesbian Sex You Deserve

I bring to you cruising tips and casual sex advice built off the years of skanky queer life experience that have solidified me as one of the leading minds in…

Chingy Nea —

Oct 23, 2018

bdsm

kink

sex

How to Rock Your First BDSM Play Party

How do you know what to do at a play party if you aren’t sure of all the kink etiquette? What if you just want to watch? What do you…

Chingy Nea —

Sep 25, 2018

polyamory

relationships

How to Navigate Polyamory as a Non-Primary Partner

Always a side piece and never a main piece? We’ve got you covered.

Chingy Nea —

Sep 18, 2018

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Todd Haynes’ Cinema of Sight

“Knife + Heart” and the Thin Line Between Desire and Destruction

How to Cruise for the Casual Lesbian Sex You Deserve

How to Rock Your First BDSM Play Party

How to Navigate Polyamory as a Non-Primary Partner