Ryan Yates

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Lez Liberty Lit: What’s Up With Reading Lists

What is Afrofuturism, readings on climate and clean energy transition, a new anthology of radical trans poetics and more.

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Nov 5, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Coping

How (and when) to talk about mental illness in a new relationship, how to ask to initiate sex, Instagram is updating its nudity rules. pandemic dating stories, the rise of…

Ryan Yates —

Nov 1, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Mild And Wild

How to go to your first sex party, how to remember social skills when you’re still staying home, it’s time to retire the baseball sex analogy, why can’t bodies just…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 25, 2020

lez liberty lit

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literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Poetry Is Not a Luxury

What happens when literary events move online, why we’re obsessed with other people’s bookshelves, lots of horror reading lists and more.

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Oct 22, 2020

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It’s Time to Put a Butt Plug Directly Into Your Butt

Check out these better butt plugs and toys for Butt Week! Our picks come in confetti, hardwood, stainless steel, tie dye (!) and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 19, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Shadowbanned

Shadowbanning and censorship disproportionately impact sex workers. A new report from Hacking/Hustling on the recommendations policy makers and platforms need to implement now.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 18, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Porn With Partners

A new relationship compatibility test, challenges in teledildonics, I refuse to call pandemic sex “coronalingus,” and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 11, 2020

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Lez Liberty Lit: Allow For The Unexpected

Why private eyes are watching you, watching everything (jk) (probably); computers are machines; banned books to read by writers of color; Karla Cornejo Villavicencio is the first undocumented person to…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 8, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Taking A Meditation Moment

Sometimes meditation is a euphemism for masturbation and sometimes it’s not. Also, a look inside a sex toy factor, what you need to know about NSFW subscription sites, and more

Ryan Yates —

Oct 4, 2020

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Ten Maximalist Sex Toys to Add to Your (Toy) Box

Looking for big, bright, maximalist sex toys? You’ve come to the right place.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 30, 2020

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Misses The Hunt

How to open your relationship; how to make vanilla sex more interesting; what’s happening to our relationships in the pandemic and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 27, 2020

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Lez Liberty Lit: Reclaiming Genderqueer Monstrousness

Roxane Gay on Audre Lorde, Emily Hashimoto on writing lesbian sex, Tessa Gratton on reclaiming genderqueer monstrousness and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 24, 2020