Ryan Yates

love + sex

Poly Pocket: Building Intentional Community and Relationship Anarchy

Here’s how a 33-year-old queer, polyamorous, white, trans woman living in Chicago who’s married and has a long-term girlfriend does poly.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 22, 2016

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Loves Spanking

Why people love spanking, why prop 60 is bad, why being a badass and a bottom is not a contradiction, why it’s hard to come out as non-monogamous and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 18, 2016

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: What Is Women’s Lit?

Reading bored white girls, queer YA, Power and Magic, what women’s lit is anyway and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 15, 2016

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down

The astrological signs most and least likely to be polyamorous, going down on a vulva, false balance in sex reporting, how to live past age 100 (by having lots of…

Ryan Yates

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Sep 11, 2016

love + sex

Poly Pocket: Solo Poly Without Hierarchy

“Not leaning into change is a lot like staring at your house while it’s on fire.”

Ryan Yates

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Sep 8, 2016

af+

Poly Pocket: Making Relationships Up As We Go

Welcome to Poly Pocket, a new series showcasing polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships. Here’s how a married kinky butch/femme couple does poly.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 8, 2016

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Know What You Wear To Get Laid

Why your nipples get hard when you’re aroused, why nipple hair is totally normal, how porn advances technology, what you wear when you want to look bangin’ and more. Plus…

Ryan Yates

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Sep 4, 2016

community

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: But Does It Spark Joy?

Wishing and hoping and thinking and praying and planning and dreaming? Doing some fall cleaning? Excited for the long weekend? Get in here and let’s hang out!

Ryan Yates

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Sep 2, 2016

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Collecting Queer History

Handwriting doesn’t matter, punk and magic in art, preserving lesbian pulp fiction, breaking up with a bad book and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 1, 2016

book lists

Fall 2016 Book Preview: 48 Queer and Feminist Books To Add To Your Reading List

Welcome to your list of queer and/or feminist books coming out in fall 2016. New Zadie Smith, Ivan Coyote, Anne Carson, Margaret Atwood, Bae Suah and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 29, 2016

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking Politics And Pleasure

Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 28, 2016

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Using A Vibrator Alarm Clock

Don’t move in with your partner, love is a lie and we all die alone, Fetlife is over, at least anal is still good though, plus a vibrator alarm clock.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 21, 2016