Ryan Yates

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Discipline Is Part of Creation

On writing regularly, an approach for overwhelm, a book of botanical drawings and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 15, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Super Into PDA Now

It’s time to make out. Plus, gender-neutral sex tech, just break up if you want to break up, how to talk dirty and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 11, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is in Limbic Revision

3D printed toys, STI testing, and Cara Delevingne’s sex toys.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 4, 2021

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: James Baldwin’s Record Collection

James Baldwin’s record collection as a playlist, procrastination and writer’s block and whether or not they’re value neutral and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 1, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants You To Stop Texting Your Ex At Last

How to have good sex even when you’re feeling dysphoric, how to tell a partner about trauma, how to tell if your argument style is healthy and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 27, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Celebrating the Solstice

The labor of porn, what dating is like out there right now, how to date multiple people the right way, and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 20, 2021

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Stories Have Power

The power of queer coming-of-age stories, even when you’ve already come; the myth of objectivity; writing about the body; and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 17, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lexbosexy Sunday Welcomes You to Hot Divorcée Summer

You don’t need to be divorced to have a hot divorcée summer, but it helps. Also: block your exes on Tinder. Don’t think just do it.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 13, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows What They’re Looking for on Here

If privacy is a requirement for intimate romance, what’s with live tweeting long-distance love confessions? Plus how to @ that person you ghosted months ago but kinda want to see…

Ryan Yates

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Jun 6, 2021

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Counterfactual Realities

How memory works, BOOK IT nostalgia, why pleasure should never be guilty and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 3, 2021

quizzes

Quiz: What to Call the Person You’re… You Know…

The anxious-avoidant’s guide to whether you’re hanging out, sleeping together, seeing each other, involved, going on dates together, or — gulp — dating.

Ryan Yates

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May 30, 2021

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Hedonistic AF

The collective summer horniness is for dating as well as orgies — but here’s how to go swinging, just in case. (Spoiler alert: it’s not on Twitter.)

Ryan Yates

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May 30, 2021