Ryan Yates

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NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Taking Nudes With A Feminist Lens

Safer sexting from a feminist perspective, everything about your ex, brains on BDSM, whether you need to wash your hands before fingering someone and more.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 26, 2017

Miniseries

non-monogamy

relationships

Poly Pocket: The Communication Cushion

Here’s how a 28-year-old Arab-American queer demisexual cis woman living in the urban Midwest does ethical non-monogamy.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 23, 2017

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is All About Tinder

How to love or fuck each astrological sign, every idea you ever wanted to hear about Tinder, dueling opinions on queer sex as resistance, homoerotic lingerie ads and more.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 19, 2017

lez liberty lit

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literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Swoon and Swish and Style

Greenland’s queer literary star, takes on contemporary feminism, book club history, bookstores in the resistance and more.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 16, 2017

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Squirting

Sex, drugs and music in your brain; watersports; coming out as a queer feminist stripper; and more!

Ryan Yates —

Feb 12, 2017

friday open thread

open thread

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Snow Days And Spring Dreams

LET’S HANG OUT. Warning: this post contains a puppy in a birthday hat.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 10, 2017

Miniseries

Poly Pocket

relationships

Poly Pocket: Queer, Poly, Living On A Boat

“Boats have also been incredibly healing for me and have really helped me create better relationships in all parts of my life. They make me work harder to maintain my…

Ryan Yates —

Feb 9, 2017

holiday gift guide

sex toy shopping guide

sex toys

A Color-Coded Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Gift Guide For Anyone

What do you get your hot new girlfriend, your best friend, your ex, the barista you’re secretly in love with, the couple you want to sleep with, and more for…

Ryan Yates —

Feb 6, 2017

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is About To Have Morning Sex

A new dating app that lets you meet people who hate the same stuff you do; BDSM as moments of holding intensity; mental illness and dating; the most popular time…

Ryan Yates —

Feb 5, 2017

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Wonder and Humility

Reading as a cure for monotony, boredom, and almost-death; books about living in oppressive religious cults; what Roxane Gay is reading right now and more.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 2, 2017

allison raskin

gaby dunn

book features

Gaby Dunn And Allison Raskin Hate Everyone But You

Check out this rad new queer YA book by your fave YouTube odd couple, Gaby Dunn and Allison Raskin!

Ryan Yates —

Jan 31, 2017

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Just Like The First Time

Virtual vulvas, queer sex as resistance, porn traffic dipped during the women’s march and other stories to read before/after you hit the streets.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 29, 2017