Ryan Yates

advice

sex advice

sex

You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants

Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 16, 2017

link roundup

NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Not Even A Little Bit Mysterious

Stop trying to be mysterious on dates. Plus: kinky porn and the Armory, muffing, Victorian smut, astrological signs and sex, when it might be okay to call that person your…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 15, 2017

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: A Peculiar Malfunction

The Nobel Prize is “fun” now, “Her Body and Other Parties,” Shirley Jackson, Rupi Kaur, the most subversive thing a woman can be and more.

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Oct 12, 2017

bdsm

kink

sex

You Need Help: What To Wear To A Kink Party

What to wear when you don’t want to channel Leather Mommi Barbie.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 9, 2017

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NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is A Comet

How to grow out your pubic hair, how to give a lap dance, dating tips for trans women, why to start thinking of casual encounters like comets instead of flings…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 8, 2017

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NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Anything You Want It To Be

Queer sex can be anything you want it to be. Plus, butch-femme sexual dynamics, the most compatible astrological signs, when emotional labor is too much and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 1, 2017

LGBT youth

the color purple

book lists

Read These Queer Banned Books Right Now

Read queer banned books. Support their authors. And maybe buy an extra copy or two of these and leave them in a school library near you.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 29, 2017

friday open thread

open thread

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Ask The Question Or Life Will Ask It For You

Sometimes all you can do is just hang out so LET’S HANG OUT.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 29, 2017

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Bodies Are Terrifying

Feminist books to inspire creative resistance, book collecting, writers of color and escaping autobiography, Harry Potter fanfiction feelings and more.

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Sep 28, 2017

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NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Has Vintage Lesbian Smut Just For You

Vintage lesbian art! Plus: why being a second is best, why your girlfriend kinda looks like your mom, turning a tiny apartment into a dungeon and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 24, 2017

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Faithless and True

Examining relationships with your brain as well as your gut, why public queer porn screenings are powerful, why you have bad dates from apps, what makes a partner more likely…

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Sep 17, 2017

feminist art

fullscreen

visual art

GALLERY: Maggie West’s Neon NSFW Full-Frontal Fight Against Rape Culture

In a new art installation, Los Angeles-based photographer Maggie West, who specializes in experimental technicolor lighting and whose work increasingly critiques still-rigid contemporary ideas about gender and sexuality, worked with…

Ryan Yates —

Sep 14, 2017