Ryan Yates

christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: You’re Just Really Into Books

Gifts for people who are super into books that aren’t, y’know, books. And also some that are.

Ryan Yates

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Nov 21, 2017

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Person, Not A Phone

Relationship autopilot does not exist, correcting bad texting, how to date someone with anxiety, the perks of sex in late-stage capitalism and more.

Ryan Yates

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Nov 19, 2017

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Balancing Act

Work AND leave my house? Eat well AND go to bed on time? Hang out with other people AND also myself? How do you even do that? (No really, I’m…

Ryan Yates

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Nov 17, 2017

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Flirting Relentlessly

Why flirting is the best way to engage with your own desires; deconstructing myths about polyamory and about fat sex; seriously just stop instagram stalking your ex; and more.

Ryan Yates

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Nov 12, 2017

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: We Are Never Lonely In Language

Reading Audre Lorde after Charlottesville, gendered terms in language when you’re non-binary, scary little girls in literature and more.

Ryan Yates

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Nov 9, 2017

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Closer To Fine

How to know when you’re ready to have sex, turning relationship crises into opportunities, going braless, heteronormativity in queer dynamics and more.

Ryan Yates

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Nov 5, 2017

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Thinks You’re Handsome and Beautiful

Pot smokers have more sex, share sex content everywhere, when anti-depressants change your sex drive and more.

Ryan Yates

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Oct 29, 2017

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: BOO ???

IT’S THAT TIME.

Ryan Yates

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Oct 27, 2017

book lists

25 LGBT History Books to Add to Your Epic Queer History Reading List

Celebrate LGBT History Month by reading LGBT history books!

Ryan Yates

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Oct 27, 2017

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Love After Life

Consider only reading queer romance, bisexual slang, horror stories by women and more.

Ryan Yates

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Oct 26, 2017

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Never 100% Risk-Free

STI horror, turning an ex into a best friend, it’s okay to care about love if you care about love, when you can only orgasm when you have to pee…

Ryan Yates

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Oct 22, 2017

relationships

These Two Factors Make You More Likely To Be Into Non-Monogamy

More people than ever are in non-monogamous relationships, and new research sheds light on what factors make people — and specifically queer people — more likely to be into them.

Ryan Yates

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Oct 19, 2017