Ryan Yates

101s

sex advice

friendship

How to Be Friends With Benefits

Sometimes you just want to have sex with your friends, and not have it be anything else. But friends with benefits isn’t the same as no-strings-attached sex. You’re friends, not…

Ryan Yates —

Jan 30, 2018

link roundup

NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Exploring Electrosex

What “marriage is work” means, what to do when pleasure brings up trauma, how to be direct, poly people on poly, electrosex and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 28, 2018

friday open thread

open thread

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Favorite?

What was your favorite thing from this week?

Ryan Yates —

Jan 26, 2018

101s

sex advice

sex

How To Give (Or Get) a Strap-On Blow Job

Strap-on blow jobs are subversive and super hot. Learn how to give or get one right here.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 23, 2018

link roundup

NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Sex On Shrooms

Why you should be careful about sex on shrooms, rumbly vs buzzy vibrators, dating as a hobby, why “microcheating” is absurd and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 21, 2018

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Backwards Books

A proposed New York prison book ban, asexuality in fiction, working from home, paper planners, spine-in books and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 18, 2018

link roundup

NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About Sex Robots

How to buy a vibrator, how to get back together with an ex, vulvic aura portraits, what your astrological sign says about how you masturbate and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 14, 2018

friday open thread

open thread

straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Building From Small Moments

Let’s talk about those really tiny really good things that happened to you this week!

Ryan Yates —

Jan 12, 2018

safer sex

sex

What Are Dental Dams, and How Do They Work?

Why dental dams are the safer sex tool no one gives a shit about, and why it’s time to start.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 9, 2018

link roundup

NSFW

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Safe Sexting

How to practice safe sexting, how to handle a toxic person, learning a new approach to empathy, the ways online dating leads to stronger bonds and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 7, 2018

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Go Visit Violet Valley Bookstore

A new queer feminist bookstore in Mississippi, how to read more this year, what to read more of, and more.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 4, 2018

daniel mallory ortberg

Lists/Top 10s

book lists

65 Queer and Feminist Books To Read In 2018

Your guide to 2018’s queer and feminist books.

Ryan Yates —

Jan 2, 2018