Ryan Yates

101s

bdsm

sex

How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex

If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.

Ryan Yates —

Apr 10, 2018

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows Whether Scissoring Is Real

A FOSTA/SESTA explainer, plus whether scissoring is a real lesbian sex thing, how to keep casual sex casual, how to handle jealousy and more.

Ryan Yates —

Apr 8, 2018

101s

sex toy shopping guide

sex toys

How to Bring Butt Plugs Into Your Lesbian Sex Life

Regardless of gender and sexuality, everybody’s got a butt. Here’s how to try butt plugs for the first time, how to add butt plugs to lesbian sex, and how to…

Ryan Yates —

Apr 3, 2018

lez liberty lit

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literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Possibly Infinite Meaning

Books as medicine or advice, what’s happening to feminist bookstores, addiction and recovery narratives and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 29, 2018

101s

sexting

sex

10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting

Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 27, 2018

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Aftercare

How to practice good aftercare no matter what type of sex you’re having, why we sext, all about queefing and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 25, 2018

101s

sex toy shopping guide

sex toys

How to Buy a Vibrator

My first vibrator sucked; here’s how to make sure yours doesn’t.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 20, 2018

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Tantric Masturbation

Sexuality and recovering from shame, how to meet people in real life without looking at your phone, vegan sex and kink toys, tantric masturbation, trans women suing Tinder and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 18, 2018

lez liberty lit

link roundup

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: In the Dictionary Like a Dumpster Fire

Complaining about language, a new zine about sisterhood beyond gender, Lambda Literary finalists, “dumpster fire” makes the dictionary and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 15, 2018

101s

sex

How To Eat Ass

Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 13, 2018

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nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Instagram Official

When feminist sex companies body shame, the next trends in porn searches, going Instagram official and more. Featuring Canadian trans porn star Jelena Vermilion.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 11, 2018

101s

breakups

How To Be Friends With Your Ex

Is it possible? Yes! Is it a good idea? Only sometimes! Here’s everything you need to know about being friends with your ex-girlfriend.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 6, 2018