Ryan Yates

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has An Elaborate Sex Spreadsheet

Keeping a sex spreadsheet, using different sex toys in different ways, the deal with yes/no/maybe lists, what to do if you feel lonely and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 22, 2019

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read a f-cking book

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Lez Liberty Lit Is Motivated By Drive (Or Fear)

Is there a difference between drive and fear? Where are the abortion memoirs? What fall books should you definitely read?

Ryan Yates —

Sep 19, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Want To Sleep Over

How to muff, why not to sleep in the same bed as a partner, why to talk to strangers, whether friendly-feeling BDSM is the same BDSM as ever and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 15, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Welcome To The Sex Panic

Decriminalize sex work. Plus, dating through Facebook, why vaginal wellness is a scam, what happens in sex therapy and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 8, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Saying “Vagina”

Dating as a queer single mom, setting adult performers’ doxxed info literally on fire, weird rules around saying the word “vagina” in advertising and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 1, 2019

lez liberty lit

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Lez Liberty Lit: Likability Is Dehumanizing

Why likability is a lie, a new edition of Colonize This!, the publisher reissuing queer genre fiction from the 60s to 90s, abandoning books and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 29, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Too Sweaty For This

Living apart together, having kids when you’re poly, when PMS and anxiety ask you for a threesome and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 25, 2019

lez liberty lit

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Lez Liberty Lit Is Joining a Silent Bookclub

Silently reading en masse, language and citizenship, writers remembering Toni Morrison and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 18, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Totally F*cking Natural

Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 18, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Don’t Steam Vaginas

Don’t steam vaginas. Plus: porn keywords, how sex scenes work, supporting sex workers instead of appropriating their aesthetics and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 11, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Always Already Censored

Instagram and Facebook etc. are failing sex workers by shadowbanning their content. Plus: what to do if you can’t orgasm, what love bombing is, misunderstanding herpes and more.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 4, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Consider the Urn Dildo

There are a lot of fun sex patents out there I don’t know what to tell you. Plus, pubic hair oil, dating friends or absolutely not dating friends, Mars and…

Ryan Yates —

Jul 28, 2019