Ryan Yates

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Never Settle

Settling, sending “we need to talk” with no context and texting your ghosts are all boring. Plus: how sex workers are leading the fight against mass surveillance, anal sex stats,…

Ryan Yates —

Nov 17, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How Long Your Fingers Are

Horny people lie more, stop calling sex shops sleazy, how to dump someone you love and more.

Ryan Yates —

Nov 10, 2019

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Lez Liberty Lit Is in the Dream House

Carmen Maria Machado’s new gothic memoir, why reading is different from experiencing, new Elena Ferrante and more.

Ryan Yates —

Nov 7, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is in Tinder Purgatory

Why censoring sex works impacts everyone, life in Tinder purgatory, supporting a partner with sexual trauma and more.

Ryan Yates —

Nov 3, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking Too Much About STIs

Rising STI rates, what you need to know about at-home testing kits, the best way to tell a partner you have an STI, why supplements won’t work and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 27, 2019

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Lez Liberty Lit: “Books” Are Still Not A Personality

“Where are the boundaries between story and real life, between consciousness and an idea?” Plus, the petty errors that pull you out of a piece of writing, how books became…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 24, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Scary Movies

Why scary moves make you horny, how to get candle wax (from play or ambiance) out of anything, strategies for (not) sending regrettable texts and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 20, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Pantsless

What’s up with your Venus, what happens in couples’ therapy, what to wear to break up with your partner and more!

Ryan Yates —

Oct 13, 2019

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Lez Liberty Lit: Reclaiming Anger

Halloween reading, all the new (and forthcoming!) Carmen Maria Machado, women reclaiming anger and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 10, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Up All Night

The damage of the war on sex work, vintage period booklets, when your head is aroused but your body isn’t (or vice versa) and more.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 6, 2019

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Overthinking It

Stop appropriating sex worker aesthetics, actually dating from dating apps, separation anxiety and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 29, 2019

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Lez Liberty Lit: The Future Is Not Infinite

Nostalgia as a way to connect with diaspora, we are about to lose memory and history, reading on the climate emergency and more.

Ryan Yates —

Sep 26, 2019