Ryan Yates

love + sex

Nine Minimalist Sex Toys to Keep Forever

Minimalist sex toys are foundational sex toys that can keep you coming over and over.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 23, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking About Asexuality

All about asexuality, comparing the best queer astrology apps, why sexual health and STI testing still matter in the pandemic, your parents’ divorce could be the reason you have a…

Ryan Yates

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Sep 20, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Differentiating Boundaries and Walls

The key difference between boundaries and walls, whether masturbation is good for you when you’re sick, what science has to say about porn this week, and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 13, 2020

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Library Sex

The people who fantasize about library sex, excerpts and fall reading lists galore, Black-owned bookstores and radical bookstores, pandemic creativity and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 10, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Is a Tall Glass of Water

Dating is hard when you’re too thirsty. Plus, pandemic non-monogamy, relationship imposter syndrome, and more.

Ryan Yates

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Sep 6, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Anxious and Polyamorous

When you’re poly and anxious, when you learn to show yourself the love you show others, the new cuffing season and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 30, 2020

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Boredom Banana Bread

The relationships between boredom, work, art, pandemic, and banana bread; the bourgeois romance of pandemic isolation; read books about “disreputable women” by women writers and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 27, 2020

love + sex

Oh Duck: The Autocorrect Adds You Need for Better Queer Sexting

A spectre is haunting queer sexting — the spectre of “duck.” Here’s how to fix your autocorrect and what to add to your dictionary for better queer sexting.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 25, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Breathing

An orgasmic breath work class, the age gap debate, updates to the “rough sex” defense and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 23, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Self-Destructing Art

How to tell if you’re dating a narcissist, how to get better at talking about sex, a pandemic glory hole explainer, the self-destructing art show you don’t want to miss,…

Ryan Yates

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Aug 16, 2020

literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Traditional Vocabulary Is Defunct

Raven Leilani’s Luster and the new vocabulary for morality, how lesbian pulp fiction made one essayist feel normal, a ton of new memoirs and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 13, 2020

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Masked Sex

How Shine Houston made queer porn great, how action and pleasure go together, how to be a better top, what cannabis can do for your masturbation and more.

Ryan Yates

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Aug 9, 2020