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culture

BABE Wine Bar Offers a Queer Wine Oasis in Brooklyn

While wine bars are a dime a dozen in Brooklyn, there isn’t a single one like BABE.

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Jul 30, 2025

lesbian bar culture

culture

Booters Is the Dyke Diner of My Dreams

Until Booters, I didn’t know that I could love a diner outside of New Jersey.

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Jul 28, 2025

The Parlour

breakups

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

We broke up on a Wednesday at 10 p.m. Any other Wednesday, and we might have been watching a show, taking a bath together, or sitting at our desks in…

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Jun 11, 2025

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novel

lgbt book reviews

Meryl Wilsner Has Done It Again With This Friends-to-Lovers Romance With Killer Sex Scenes

In a sea of skinny sapphic romance novels, I found Wilsner’s latest to be a refreshing change for the genre.

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Apr 29, 2025

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shopping

Indie Scents That’ll Have You Smelling Your Best in 2025

I do promise there is an indie perfume out there for everyone! In this indie perfume guide, there’s a pizza-inspired perfume and a Hannibal Lecter-inspired perfume. The duality of man!

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Jan 7, 2025

personality quiz

halloween

Quiz: Pick Your Own Victorian Mansion Escape Adventure and I’ll Tell You What Your Halloween Costume Should Be

Why have Victorian homes become the default ‘haunted house’? Well it’s time to get your ass out of one to uncover your Halloweeny destiny.

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Oct 13, 2024

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romance

lgbt book reviews

Casey McQuiston’s Bi4Bi Romance ‘The Pairing’ Is for Queer Hedonists Everywhere

The bisexual and trans romance is a delectable feast.

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Aug 6, 2024

you need help

breakups

‘How Do I Transition My Failed Situationship Into a Friendship?’

“I know saying my situationship broke up with me a week ago and we’re trying to be friends already is probably the most lesbian-coded sentence on the planet…”

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Jul 9, 2024

personality quiz

quizzes

Quiz: Which Iconic Early Aughts Kids TV Character Are You?

Are you Jimmy Neutron? Lizzie McGuire? Mrs Frizzle? There are so many early aughts kids TV characters that you could possibly be and today you will find out which one…

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Jun 30, 2024

comedy

I’m A Whole Milk Gay and I’m Not Ashamed

I’ve tried my best to like alternative milks! I really have.

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May 29, 2024

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novel

lgbt book reviews

A Hilarious Sapphic Road Trip Romance About Death and English Teachers

‘Here We Go Again’ by Alison Cochrun delights — despite dealing with death.

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Apr 30, 2024

Uncommon Pairings

food and drink

Uncommon Pairings: Wines That Go Beyond Grapes

I was taught that wine is fermented grape juice, but that’s way too narrow in my opinion! In fact, some of the most exciting things in the wine world are…

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Mar 27, 2024