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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: How To Clean Your Kitchen

My hope in crafting this guide for cleaning your kitchen is that it makes the task never feel daunting, even when your kitchen is absolutely a mess – and believe…

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Mar 31, 2022

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: Welcome to the Worldmaking Series

If you’ve ever wanted step by step instructions about how to deep clean your room, this is the post for you.

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Feb 25, 2022

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: States of Being, Not Moral Designations

I want you to be the best housekeeper you can be. And if and when you can’t, I want you to know more than anything, that you’re still a good…

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Jan 28, 2022

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: When Company Comes Over

Hopefully these tips make hosting feel more accessible to more people (although, please heed the guidelines of your local health authorities right now about hosting because Miss Omicron is truly…

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Dec 24, 2021

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: Tips From Someone Who Loves You

Many of us are getting into the season of hosting and cleaning that comes with the holidays, and I hope that this makes preparing for company feel a little easier…

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Nov 26, 2021

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: Spells and Potions

You aren’t just cleaning your space, you’re making a world where you feel like you can breathe deeply and be your whole self. Put some love into it.

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Oct 22, 2021

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Notes for a Queer Homemaker: Polishing Silver and Panoptical Perches

This year, we’re releasing things that have held us back, things like heteronormative ideas about homemaking and domesticity.

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Sep 17, 2021

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Dedication and Liberation, or What Does a Queer Black Hanukkah Look Like

What does Hanukkah look like when you’re a queer, Black, convert who doesn’t find deep meaning in traditional celebrations of the holiday?

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Dec 10, 2020

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Sunday Funday is Celebrating Weddings, Babies, and Nancy Meyers

Happy Sunday! We’ve got cute gay weddings, a new-ish “Father of the Bride”, Amanda Nunes has a baby, Sarah Paulson has the greatest response for the next time someone asks…

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Sep 27, 2020

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Sunday Funday Is Making a High Holidays Cheese Plate with Audre Lorde!

Happy Sunday! Rosh Hashanah cheese plates, Roxane Gay on Audre Lorde’s legacy, autumnal sewing, RBG quotes, “Julie and the Phantoms” has a super cute queer romance, God — remember snack…

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Sep 20, 2020

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Sunday Funday Will Not Be Throwing a Gender Reveal for Miss Major’s Baby!

Happy Sunday! Miss Major and Beck are having a baby, Lena Waithe has a cute LA office, queer women are finding their place in ballet, a recipe for strawberry and…

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Sep 13, 2020

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Sunday Funday and “Star Trek: Discovery” Knows the Future Isn’t Cis

Star Trek is finally officially trans! Plus virtual concerts by Brandi Carlile, women truckers for suffrage, Fawzia Mirza got married, “The Glorias” trailer is here, and more! Happy Sunday!

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Sep 6, 2020