People die. Characters die. This is perhaps life’s most unfortunate fact: that people will die and leave the rest of us behind. It’s incredibly rare that any dramatic television series lasting over three seasons will never kill a main or recurring character, and all those deaths have driven a stake through the heart of fandom: Joyce on Buffy, Lady Sybil on Downton Abby, Charlie on Lost, Ned Stark on Game of Thrones, Jen on Dawson’s Creek, Nate on Six Feet Under — but when the person who dies is a lesbian or bisexual character, queer fandom takes it pretty hard.
The history of lesbian representation on television is rocky — in the beginning, we seemed exclusively relegated to roles that saw us getting killed/attacked or doing the killing/attacking. And until the last five or so years, lesbian and bisexual characters seemed entirely unable to date an actual woman or stay alive for more than three episodes, let alone an entire run, of a show. Gay and lesbian characters are so often murdered on television that we have our very own trope: Bury Your Gays. We comprise such a teeny-tiny fraction of characters on television to begin with that killing us off so haphazardly feels especially cruel.
Not every death listed below was wholly uncalled for. In many genres, like soap operas and shows about vampires, zombies, criminals, or games of thrones, characters are killed on the reg. That’s a different trope — Anyone Can Die. Furthermore, shows composed entirely of queer characters will inevitably kill one. But regardless, they still add to the body count weighing down our history of misrepresentation.
And, due to the recent untimely death of Lexa on The 100, this week seemed like a good one to count down everybody we have lost over the years.
This list contains every television death of an OPENLY lesbian or bisexual or queer female character on a television show. With a handful of exceptions, these are all characters who appeared for more than one episode. The exceptions were deemed exceptional because something about the characterization still fits in with the Bury Your Gays trope. Victims-of-the-week from crime procedurals (Law & Order, Cold Case, CSI, Criminal Minds or older shows) or patients-of-the-week from hospital dramas (Chicago Hope, E.R.), aren’t on this list, as that is an entirely different kind of list, but recurring characters from those shows are on this list. Nor is subtext on this list, because we’re not gonna give Xena showrunners Queer Character Credit for a character they refused to make openly queer when she was really so obviously queer. You know? [ETA: Okay, I’ve added Xena after doing further research and because if one more commenter takes up space on this thread — a thread I’m using to find more characters to add, and also to engage with thoughtful/funny readers who have opinions and feelings — to tell me that I “forgot” Xena without reading this introduction, I will become the 200th dead lesbian and the cause of death will be “Walked off a cliff with a commenter in her arms. Murder-suicide.” But Xena will be the one and only inclusion based on subtext.] Also, although I’ve done tons of research, I haven’t personally seen all of these shows, so mistakes may very well exist, and feel free to politely inform me of them in the comments, or tell me about characters I may have missed — it’s especially helpful if you can tell me the cause of death and the year.
Unsure if this needs to be said but… SPOILER ALERT.
Special thanks to the LezWatchTV Database for providing info on shows I haven’t seen or heard about directly!
Cause of death: Hit by a car. Her love interest had just walked into traffic after realizing her lesbianism and Julie was chasing her.
Cause of death: Shot by a police officer after escaping from prison
Cause of death: Pushed down the stairs by a corrections officer
Cause of death: Head Injury
Cause of death: Car Accident
Cause of death: Shot by a gunman employed by the town’s evil overlord who doesn’t want to let the lesbians change his town. The shot was intended for her girlfriend Roslyn, but Cicely, who was already sick, blocked the bullet and died in Roslyn’s arms, thus magically healing the town’s long-simmering feuds and leading them to re-name the town “Cicely.”
Cause of death: Activated a sleeper personality that wiped out her actual personality, effectively killing her
Cause of death: Genetic heart condition, died in prison
Cause of death: Toxic envelope glue
Cause of death: Stabbed herself
Cause of death: Caught thieving and hanged
Cause of death: Shot by a hit man hired by her girlfriend Abby’s ex, who wanted to get rid of Kathy so she could get back together with Abby. Abby was pregnant at the time.
Cause of death: Murdered by a serial killer
Cause of death: Blasted by an alien-possessed alien
Cause of death: Drug overdose from medication given to her by her ex-lover’s husband
Cause of death: Explosion in a shopping mall
Cause of death: Shot during a bank robbery (she was a customer)
Cause of death: Bomb, died in resulting fire
Cause of death: Heart attack
Cause of death: Used as a lab rat for research that killed her
Cause of death: Beheaded
Cause of death: Injuries from an explosion
Cause of death: Suicide
Cause of death: Murder Mystery!
Cause of death: Shot by a man in front of her girlfriend
Cause of death: Shot in the heart by a stray bullet
Cause of death: Pushed down the stairs by her lover’s husband
Cause of death: Electrocuted in the bathtub
Cause of death: Stabbed
Cause of death: Impaled through the chest on a large piece of wood during a fight with a male character
Cause of death: Injuries sustained from fighting a fire in an abandoned warehouse
Cause of death: Poisoned
Cause of death: Stroke, died in her girlfriend’s arms
Cause of death: Throat slit, died in girlfriend’s arms
Cause of death: Murdered by a demon
Cause of death: Beaten by a man who then forced a woman to shoot her with his gun
Cause of death: Stabbed with a cursed blade by a man, causing her to rapidly age and then die
Cause of death: Shot during a heist gone wrong
Cause of death: Car crash after being driven off the road by her drunk ex-boyfriend
Cause of death: Stabs herself in front of her rival house, inhabited by the mother of her lover
Cause of death: At a benefit at a gay club when a bomb went off
Cause of death: Breast cancer
Cause of death: Shot by her ex-lady-lover
Cause of death: Stabbed, died in girlfriend’s arms
Cause of death: Hit by a car
Cause of death: Bludgeoned to death with a brick
Cause of death: Set off a nuclear weapon
Cause of death: Inside a building when it was blown up
Cause of Death: Killed by the Shadows
Cause of death: Suicide. Jumped off a building.