Holigay Gift Guide: For the Reluctant Pandemic Chef

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
Dec 14, 2020
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I’m someone who loves to cook. It’s absolutely a top-tier passion of mine. And yet. I still get overwhelmed by the sheer amount of time spent in my own kitchen during this pandemic. I love making dinner but it’s also like damn we really gotta have dinner EVERY NIGHT?????!!!!

Cooking is a lot of work!!!! I’m lucky that I love it, and I get that not everyone does! In fact, some of my friends are really struggling with their new roles as home cooks. So I’ve put together this list of kitchen tools and essentials that will hopefully make the chore of cooking a little bit easier and more enjoyable for people who maybe didn’t cook much at all prior to this pandemic. Shop this guide for the reluctant home cook in your life or for yourself if you’re wanting to shake things up in the kitchen but don’t know where to start! I’ve also included some recipes and guides for some inspiration.


A turquoise blue dutch oven.
Dutch oven ($50)

Yes they are heavy and cumbersome to clean, but trust me, Dutch ovens are a versatile and long-lasting kitchen essential. Easily braise meats (here’s a quick guide to braising), make one-pot meals (like this!), and make soups and stews. This particular one is a good size and price for starting out. It basically can be used as a pot/skillet/roasting pan/etc. I use mine every day.


A black air fryer.
Airfryer ($59.99)

When I realize I have a bunch of random veggie scraps in the fridge, my solution is LET’S FRY THESE BAD BOYS UP. I usually pan fry/deep fry in a wok, but that takes practice to get the temperatures and timing right. Using an airfryer is easier and faster. You can use them for so many things!!! I don’t have one but I wish I did!! Check out @jamesyworld’s Will It Airfry highlight on Instagram for inspo.


A collection of spices against warm matching backgrounds.
Nice spices ($47.99)

I recently got this set from Burlap & Barrel from a friend, and I LOVE it. This would make a nice gift for anyone trying to up their seasonings/flavors game. These six are great for all kinds of cuisines. The cinnamon is even good just on coffee.


A small bottle of Sichuan Chili Crisp spices with a bright multicolored neon pink label.
Fly By Jing chili crisp ($17.98)

On the subject of seasonings and flavors, you really can’t go wrong with a good chili crisp. It can be put on ANYTHING. Buy it for your pal who likes it hot.


An immersion hand blender with various attachments.
Immersion blender with chopping attachment ($31.99)

I’m pretty sure a good 30% of my life is spent chopping vegetables. If you want a shortcut/less strenuous option, immersion blenders that come with the little chopping attachment are a great solution. It’s basically a mini food processor! Perfect for someone with little counter space or someone who is like “I simply do not want to spend 45 minutes mincing garlic by hand” because FAIR. You could also buy this for yourself and then make little jars of pesto as a gift for others.


A multicolored stripped apron in cream and shades of grey.
Apron ($34)

Honestly who cares how the food turns out so long as you look cute???? Can speak from personal experience that a very good kitchen look is an apron and nothing else!!!


They look like paper towels, but watch out! They are so much more.
Reusable “unpaper” towels ($9.59)

The thing about cooking is that you do all that work, get to eat, and then have to do MORE WORK? Just endless dishwashing!!!! These reusable/washable dishcloths make good stocking stuffers and can help you cut down on single-use paper products in your kitchen. And you can find them in all sorts of cute designs!


A small black bluetooth speaker from Sony. It's sleek and looks like a rounded rectangle.
Portable speaker ($34.99)

You’re probably like “hmm Kayla I don’t think you can cook with a wireless speaker” and yes you are correct. But the cheap little speaker my girlfriend impulsively bought for the beach pre-pandemic has actually been such a gamechanger in the kitchen. Listening to music helps pass time and creates ambiance. We like to put on this “Italian cooking music” playlist or a “Parisian cafe” one. Get a waterproof one in case of kitchen spills.

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya is the managing editor of Autostraddle and a lesbian writer of essays, fiction, and pop culture criticism living in Orlando. She is the former managing editor of TriQuarterly, and her short stories appear in McSweeney’s Quarterly Concern, Joyland, Catapult, The Offing, The Rumpus, Cake Zine, and more. Some of her pop culture writing can be found at The A.V. Club, Vulture, The Cut, and others. When she is not writing, editing, or reading, she is probably playing tennis. You can follow her on Twitter or Instagram and learn more about her work on her website.

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