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The Echo of My Friend’s Casual Biphobia Destroyed Our Relationship

“Remember your bi phase?” my best friend asked when we were in our 20s. I rolled my eyes. “Yeah. It was never a phase.”

Sa’iyda Shabazz —

Sep 23, 2022

bisexuality

Two women tell each other a secret over wine, one is brunette and one is blonde. Overlayed over them are the bi pride flag colors (pink, purple, blue) and then on top of that layer is the following text message: But alas here I am, Not knowing and yet behaving bisexually.

identity

What People Said When I Came Out as Bisexual (Again)

A special shout-out to the friend who said “you know you can just be bisexual, right?” when I was spiraling about whether I’d have to give up being gay altogether…

Analyssa —

Sep 23, 2022

bisexuality

gaby dunn

dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 203: Dating Men

Whether you’re a lesbian who dated men as a teen or a queer person who dates lots of genders, our community is far too mixed and gender is far too…

Drew Burnett Gregory —

Jul 13, 2022

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bisexuality

Alia Shawkat and Ilana Glazer hold their hands up to each other on Broad City.

book features

Let’s Hear It for the Disaster Bisexuals

My confused disaster of a teenage self could have used stories from this new canon of disaster bisexuals, stories about sexually fluid people in all their imperfections.

Antonia Angress —

Jul 3, 2022

bisexuality

It's Your Anniversary

Chasing amy dvd cover overlaid on a still from the film with Alyssa in the booth with a woman. chasing amy queer

movie features

It’s Your Anniversary: My Rage at “Chasing Amy” Helped Me Find My Bisexuality

25 years later I was curious to see if I’d still hate it since I’ve stopped judging my queerness by my distance to gold star lesbian status.

Shana —

Apr 6, 2022

bisexuality

A hand that is backlit holds a magnifying glass up against a galaxy that is lit up in bisexual lighting.

identity

Three Bisexuals in Their 30s on Coming Out While in Long Term, Monogomous Relationships

“I didn’t want a divorce, didn’t want to open our relationship, didn’t want to start dating other people — I just wanted to own this piece of myself that I’d…

meg —

Sep 23, 2021

bisexuality

The author Felicia Filpatrick wears a shirt that says "Bi Felicia" (a play on the meme/saying, "Bye Felicia!"). She is overlaid in the colors of the pink, blue, and purple colors of the bi pride flag.

identity

Navigating My Biracial, Bisexual Identities Is a Lot Like Physics (Stay With Me Here)

What is Black enough? What is queer enough?

Felicia Fitzpatrick —

Sep 23, 2021

bisexuality

you need help

A person with shoulder length pink hair and rainbow overalls uses the bisexual pride flag as a cape during a pride march.

identity

You Need Help: Why Be Out As Bisexual?

There’s something about bisexuality that non-bisexual people project a lot of their fears and questions onto, maybe because it’s positioned as ‘other’ to everything else. So we become the focus…

meg —

Aug 17, 2021

bisexuality

judaism

The Bisexual Erasure in My Orthodox Life: Image shows two brunette white women looking into each others eyes.

tv reviews

“It’s Just a Phase” — Bisexual and Ex-Orthodox Erasure in Netflix’s My Unorthodox Life

We all — Ex-Orthodox, Orthodox, and bisexual — deserve better from Netflix than the perpetuation of misconceptions about our identities.

Dainy Bernstein —

Jul 26, 2021

advice

bisexuality

A photo of a man and woman sitting on a sofa; the woman looks off in a different direction as if lost in thought, a troubled expression on her face

relationships

You Need Help: Your Straight Partner Is a Great Ally – But His Parents Aren’t

Setting up boundaries around family members can be a complicated and painful thing, but doing so without the support of your partner will likely be more difficult, and could potentially…

meg —

Jul 20, 2021

bisexuality

quarantine

A young woman with her hair in a bun and wearing a college hoodie leans up against a window at night, staring at the screen of her smartphone with a serious expression

love + sex

You Need Help: Is It a Crush Or Am I Just Lonely in Quarantine?

“How do I know this isn’t some quarantine induced haze and I’m just projecting my feelings of loneliness onto her?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Apr 6, 2021

Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Lesbrarian

bisexuality

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book lists

M/F Romances Featuring Bi+ Women Whose Queer Identities and Communities are Front and Center

“I am looking for content more than simply a small throw-away line that the woman is bisexual. I would love to see bisexual women for whom their queer identities and…

Casey —

Mar 22, 2021

bisexuality

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‘I Just Realized I’m Bi and Am Extremely Anxious’

How ‘The Mummy’ Became a Cornerstone of Bisexual Cinema

I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

The Eras of My Bisexuality

Maryam Keshavarz on “The Persian Version,” Translating the Iranian American Experience On-Screen, and Cyndi Lauper

“Anatomy of a Fall” Is an Anti-Legal Drama With a Bisexual Protagonist

Prove Your Bicon Status By Identifying 35 Of These 50 Bisexual TV Characters

Bisexuality, Queerness, Labels, Perception: A Conversation Between the EIC and the HBIC

Revisit Lani Kaʻahumanu’s Moving 1993 Speech on Bisexuality

Weird Things the Victorians Did, Ranked by Bisexuality

‘I Just Realized I’m Bi and Am Extremely Anxious’

How ‘The Mummy’ Became a Cornerstone of Bisexual Cinema

I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

The Eras of My Bisexuality

Maryam Keshavarz on “The Persian Version,” Translating the Iranian American Experience On-Screen, and Cyndi Lauper

“Anatomy of a Fall” Is an Anti-Legal Drama With a Bisexual Protagonist

Prove Your Bicon Status By Identifying 35 Of These 50 Bisexual TV Characters

Bisexuality, Queerness, Labels, Perception: A Conversation Between the EIC and the HBIC

Revisit Lani Kaʻahumanu’s Moving 1993 Speech on Bisexuality

Weird Things the Victorians Did, Ranked by Bisexuality

The Echo of My Friend’s Casual Biphobia Destroyed Our Relationship

What People Said When I Came Out as Bisexual (Again)

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 203: Dating Men

Let’s Hear It for the Disaster Bisexuals

It’s Your Anniversary: My Rage at “Chasing Amy” Helped Me Find My Bisexuality

Three Bisexuals in Their 30s on Coming Out While in Long Term, Monogomous Relationships

Navigating My Biracial, Bisexual Identities Is a Lot Like Physics (Stay With Me Here)

You Need Help: Why Be Out As Bisexual?

“It’s Just a Phase” — Bisexual and Ex-Orthodox Erasure in Netflix’s My Unorthodox Life

You Need Help: Your Straight Partner Is a Great Ally – But His Parents Aren’t

You Need Help: Is It a Crush Or Am I Just Lonely in Quarantine?

M/F Romances Featuring Bi+ Women Whose Queer Identities and Communities are Front and Center