Able-bodied people: some are amazing, some are the worst, and either way, some are really hot. Don’t be ashamed if one catches your eye! They’re kind of everywhere; it happens. But for the disabled among us, meet-cutes and the events that follow aren’t so simple to orchestrate. Need a refresher on the rules of engagement? There’s no need to go it alone.

This chart isn’t the be-all and end-all—I stuck to what I know, which meant leaving out poly relationships, invisible disabilities, and many other noteworthy variables. I can only hope to inspire a wave of graphical humor illustrating what I could not.

In the meantime, may this one light the way as you begin your hero’s journey.

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Godspeed!