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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, a brown lesbian with brown hair and eyes, throughout her twenties
First Person

The Gayest Things I Did in My Twenties

I’m 23, and I’m not sure if I’m on a date (I’m not).

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 30, 2022 22 Comments
CANNES, FRANCE - MAY 24: Actress Lea Seydoux (L) and actress Kristen Stewart attend the photocall for "Crimes Of The Future" during the 75th annual Cannes film festival at Palais des Festivals on May 24, 2022 in Cannes, France
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kristen Stewart Says She’ll Make This Bisexual Movie or DIE TRYING!!!

Wee-oooh! Wee-ooh! Gays in Disney+’s Willow series! Official Bratz Pride dolls??? And Jodie Foster’s taking over True Detective.

Heather Hogan May 30, 2022 14 Comments
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, when she was 22-years-old. Her hair is dark and down, and she's wearing a black backpack and a teal sleeveless buttondown. There's pink glitter on the lower left and upper right corners of the image.
Playlists

Playlist: I’m Turning 30 Tomorrow — Here Are 20 Songs From My Twenties

Every gay person has told me your thirties rule, and I BELIEVE it!!!!!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 29, 2022 6 Comments
Amity kisses Luz
TV Show Recaps

Luz and Amity Make Queer Kissing History on Disney’s “The Owl House”

Move over, Flynn Rider — there’s a new Prince Charming in town!

Heather Hogan May 28, 2022 13 Comments
This feature image is made up of one image that is flipped and doubled on the other side, creating a mirror effect. The photo is of Analyssa and Courtney at Gay Asstrology. Analyssa is a a young latinx person with shoulder length brown hair, wearing shorts and a navy shirt with a jean jacket around her waist. She is leaning back against a bright and colorful background of rainbow streamers. Courtney is a white woman, and in front with short black hair, wearing all black with red lipstick, and giving double V for Victory signs with her fingers.
AF+

Interview With My Ex: Courtney

“Isn’t it funny how much Facebook used to play a role in flirting?”

Analyssa May 28, 2022 6 Comments
In a two panel purple and blue comic, Dickens talks with their friend Sarai. Sarai wants to know why the neighbor's front yard "looks like the Capitol Building on January 6th" and Dickens responds, "that woman is lost to the dark side."
Webcomics

Foolish Child #120: The Neighbors

In a special SATURDAY edition of Foolish Child, “Literally all I heard you say is that we live next-door to TWO white supremacists and now we have to move.”

Dickens May 28, 2022 1 Comment
In a still from Grey's Anatomy, in a dark parking lot at nightfall, Amelia and Kai kiss. Kai's hands are on Amelia's waist.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Grey’s Anatomy’s 400th Episode Is Classic Shondaland Gay

Plus updates on All American, Charmed, NCIS: Hawai’i, New Amsterdam, and more! There’s a lot of queer smooching in this post!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
May 27, 2022 18 Comments
Three people in sunglasses: A white femme person with rust colored lipstick and a blonde bob wears oversized square sunglasses with both lenses and frames in a monotone tan color; A black masc person with dreadlocks in a messy top bun and a yellow shirt wears round glasses with a keyhole on the nose bridge, the glasses have dark lenses and a tan brown frame; A woman with brown skin, long dark hair, and an orange tank top has on dark green hexagon shaped sunglasses with thin gold frames.
Queer Fashion Shopping

Statement Sunglasses for Summer That You Can Buy on Memorial Day Sale

We made it to summer, and babe you are going to look so hot.

Carmen Phillips May 27, 2022 4 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Thinking About Old Flames

“This post inspired me to wear a no bra neon green/yellow large mesh shirt around the house this morning, so thank you for that!”

Darcy May 27, 2022 5 Comments
Anne Hathaway sits on a bed and stares lovingly at Zendaya over her shoulder
Pop Culture Fix

What in the Lesbian Heck Is This? “The Princess Diaries 3” Feat. Zendaya?

It claims to be “Bulgari branded content” — but I’m not so sure.

Heather Hogan May 27, 2022 16 Comments
Maria Bello and Kristen Stewart, Queen Latifah and Melissa Etheridge, Sarah Paulson and Sara Ramirez
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Unearthed Photographs of Queer Celebrities Together

Queen Latifah and Whitney Houston in 2003! Lily Tomlin and Jodi Foster in 1996! Niecy Nash and Wanda Sykes in 2005!

Riese May 27, 2022 20 Comments
Vanessa and PB pose in front of a pool in bathing suits, wearing sunglasses. Vanessa's sunglasses are red and heart-shaped. PB's are clear with greenish lenses. PB is white and has blonde hair that is long on top and under a hat with a swoop of bangs visible and with shaved sides. Vanessa is also white with long brown hair she is wearing up.
AF+

Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend About Wildflowers, Baby Names and Time Travel

“Why do you think it took us so long to get together as girlfriends considering we’ve been friends for almost a decade?”

Vanessa May 27, 2022 12 Comments
A set of Scrabble tiles spell out GAME ON
First Person

I Beat My Girlfriend at Scrabble and We Never Played Again

Scrabble has always been an exciting way to show that my English degree might have meant something.

Julie Gentile May 27, 2022 1 Comment
Ellen Degeneres and Jennifer Aniston hold each other in a hug on the last episode of the Ellen DeGeneres show. Jennifer Aniston is in a sleeveless black dress and Ellen is in a black blazer with a white button down.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Well, Today Ellen Said Goodbye

They’re making a Laverne Cox Barbie for Pride (I want one).

Carmen Phillips May 26, 2022 4 Comments
UVALDE, TEXAS - MAY 26: A memorial is seen surrounding the Robb Elementary School sign following the mass shooting at Robb Elementary School on May 26, 2022 in Uvalde, Texas. According to reports, 19 students and 2 adults were killed, with the gunman fatally shot by law enforcement. (Photo by Brandon Bell/Getty Images)
Parenting & Family School

“I’m Angry and Sad and Scared and I Know Nothing is Going to Change”

We invited the parents and educators on our team to share how they’re feeling in the aftermath of the horrifying school shooting of 19 children and two teachers in Uvalde, Texas.

the team May 26, 2022 24 Comments
A white person with mid-length wavy hair sits, with focused eyes and parted lips, behind a chess board
AF+ Love + Sex

Intimate Geographies: The Ecstasy of Filth

No one had ever made me feel small before, but Alice was six-two and could lift me like I was a potted plant.

Dust May 26, 2022 4 Comments
in this collage piece, two fat, Black femmes post behind a foregrond of collaged foliage and in front of a background of shimmering and textured blue colors. The person on the left has her hair in a protective style and is wearing a green top with cut-outs, and posing with her arms above her head. In the background, a femme with long loose hair poses with her hand on her hip, wearing a satiny, black two-piece outfit.
AF+

Editor’s Notes: On the Fat Femme Fashion Series

“It’s no secret that I am a big fan of Dani Janae, so when she came to me with a pitch about a roundtable conversation on fat fashion the answer was of course a large and resounding YES!”

danijanae May 26, 2022 3 Comments
A fat femme in a sheer piece with blonde hair stands smiling with deep colored circles in the background. Queerness through Style
Style

Fat Femmes On How They Show Their Queerness Through Fashion

10 years ago I looked in the mirror and was scared I looked straight. Now I can’t see anything besides a very slutty dyke.

danijanae, Valerie Anne and Vanessa
May 26, 2022 18 Comments
An illustration of a brown woman with long dark hair pulling a string out of her brain
First Person

Measuring My Queerness By Different Therapists I’ve Had

If I had a dollar for every therapist I’ve had, I’d probably have enough money to buy a relatively decent meal at a nearby bodega.

Lily Alvarado May 26, 2022 8 Comments
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Get 25% Off Everything In Autostraddle’s Pre-Pride Sale!

Pride is around the corner, and you want to look as gay as possible.

viv May 25, 2022 3 Comments
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