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Today’s A+ Read a Fucking Book Club Starts In 20 Minutes!

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Nico September 26, 2022
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First Person House & Garden

7 Pressing Questions I Have for Myself After Moving

In the week following my move from Miami to Orlando, I’d like to ask myself some urgent questions, like for example: Why do I own this many pairs of opera gloves and where the hell am I going to put them?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 26, 2022 17 Comments
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First Person

Empty Magic: Lunch

In my quest to destroy the body I had known, this new body was not safe from me either. 

danijanae September 26, 2022 3 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: IRL Wives Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts Will Gay Up “The Rookie: Feds” Together

Our first look at The Owl House season three, Charlize Theron says Monster execs wanted a hot lesbian love story, and how Melissa Etheridge’s wild parties inspired The L Word.

Heather Hogan September 26, 2022 1 Comment
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Beauty

Put This on Your Face: Multisticks

If you’re looking for ways to shorten your makeup routine, or to dip your toe into the world of cosmetics, I think multisticks are the way to go!

ashni September 26, 2022 1 Comment
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Queer-Coded Disney Villain Are You?

This questionnaire is not for the faint of heart! It’s a Triple Ds: dark, dirty, and dykey.

Em Win September 25, 2022 16 Comments
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Nico September 24, 2022 33 Comments
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Queer Fashion TV Feature

Style Thief: How To Dress Like League of Their Own’s Butch Icons Lupe and Jess

Jess and Lupe have distinct but complementary go-to butch styles.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 24, 2022 4 Comments
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Playlists

Playlist: Ethereal Songs For Going Beyond Reality

Listen to these songs while you’re destressing on a weekend, pretending to be a sea creature in the ocean, getting high on the floor of your bedroom, or looking to the stars to tell you what your life means.

Lily Alvarado September 24, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: NCIS: Hawai’i Delights in its Queer Honeymoon Phase

Fall TV is back, baby! We’ve got updates on Monarch, House of the Dragon, Vampire Academy, New Amsterdam, Queen Sugar, and more!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
September 23, 2022 12 Comments
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TV Reviews

Very Queer New Series “Heartbreak High” Is an Excellent Entry Into the Friendship Breakup Canon

Heartbreak High features a queer nonbinary character, a queer autistic character, an asexual character, and so much more — but it never feels like it’s just checking boxes with its characters or storytelling.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 23, 2022 7 Comments
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Identity

15 of the Most Chaotically Bisexual Things I Did as a Bisexual 15-Year-Old

My bisexuality was a resistance and a freedom and a liability. It was such a defining part of my life that I still cling to the word, to its shifting meaning, to all it can be and all the defiance it stands for.

Nico September 23, 2022 22 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Feeling Seen

“Carson Shaw, indeed!”

Darcy September 23, 2022 4 Comments
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Friendship Identity

The Echo of My Friend’s Casual Biphobia Destroyed Our Relationship

“Remember your bi phase?” my best friend asked when we were in our 20s. I rolled my eyes.
“Yeah. It was never a phase.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 23, 2022 27 Comments
Two women tell each other a secret over wine, one is brunette and one is blonde. Overlayed over them are the bi pride flag colors (pink, purple, blue) and then on top of that layer is the following text message: But alas here I am, Not knowing and yet behaving bisexually.
Dating Identity

What People Said When I Came Out as Bisexual (Again)

A special shout-out to the friend who said “you know you can just be bisexual, right?” when I was spiraling about whether I’d have to give up being gay altogether and if the last five years of my life had been a lie.

Analyssa September 23, 2022 15 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Celebrities Who Came Out as Bisexual This Year, Happy Bi+ Week to Everyone!

Also the 50 greatest Bad Bunny songs, and why does every teen in every movie want to go to Yale?

Carmen Phillips September 22, 2022
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Movie Reviews

The Woman King Is A Testament To The Power Of Black Women

I left The Woman King feeling like I could fight any obstacle that was in my way. Not only was I full of adrenaline, but I was filled with joy. Seeing a group of powerful Black women triumph fills me like nothing else can.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 22, 2022 12 Comments
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Music

Rina Sawayama’s Sophomore Album “Hold the Girl” Wants Us To Heal Our Inner Child

“Hold The Girl” now stands with “Sawayama” in cementing Rina Sawayama’s status as one of the best pop stars of our generation.

Lily Alvarado September 22, 2022 4 Comments
four abstractly illustrated figures engage in a celebratory kinky dance. from left to right we have someone with top surgery scars wearing assless chaps, connected bvia a pair of cuffs to a person who is blindfolded and wearing cut out underwear, who is dancing next to someone in a mask and what appears to abe a full body rope bind, and followed by a person in a fishnet, corset and ballgag waving a flogger above their head. The figures are featureless and hairless and purple and the kink elements are red
AF+ Love + Sex

How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker

“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”

Vanessa September 22, 2022 6 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Libra Season 2022: Where Do Your Beliefs Come From?

Today the sun moves into the cardinal air of Libra, officially ushering us into autumn.

meg September 22, 2022 2 Comments
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