NSFW Sunday Is Persistent and Perplexing

Ryan Yates
Ryan Yates was the NSFW Editor (2013–2018) and Literary Editor for Autostraddle.com, with bylines in Nylon, Refinery29, The Toast, Bitch, The Daily Beast, Jezebel, and elsewhere. They live in Los Angeles and also on twitter and instagram.
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That is pretty good advice about dealing with rejection
Ya’ll really like silicone lube?? Not a fan. Coconut oil only for me.
Coconut oil is a fave for me too, but it can compromise barriers and safer sex is hot soooo silicone- and sometimes water-based lubes are still good to have around