Two young white people with an arm around each other's shoulders smile for the camera; the person on the left is taller and has broad shoulders and curly dark hair; the person on the right is shorter and has a straight pixie cut with a striped tank top on. They stand against a field of shapes and lines in the bi flag colors; in the upper left hand corner a text box reads AUTOSTRADDLE BI+ WEEK 2020.

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Interview With My Ex-Boyfriend (!!): Christopher

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Sep 21, 2020

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Adrian is a writer, a Texan and Presbyterian pastor. They write about bisexuality, gender, religion, politics, music and a whole lot of feelings at Autostraddle and wherever fine words are sold. They have a dog named after Alison Bechdel. Follow Adrian on Twitter @adrianwhitetx.

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