Autostraddle Strap Week 2021 – All Images by Demetria.
In this series, two babes chat through both sides of one strapping topic — sharing personal narratives with you on their perspective at this point in their queer story. Next up — Should you play suck and blow or what’s the point?

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I love the way this series is set up—there’s no one right way to have sex, it’s just about figuring out what’s right for the people involved. Both of these takes were a joy to read.
100% agree. This series has been such a joy!
Fascinated by Kris’s mention of being good with the strap but having to learn how to use fingers and mouth because I am the exact opposite; hands and mouth came naturally to me (. . . pun not intended), but I am still awful with a strap because it’s not a natural part of my body. Humans are a varied bunch!
Someone please explain to this old lady what BBL means in this context.
Oh thank you. I feel like I’m asking what things mean. But I really need someone to explain this to me too.
Got you!
In saying that she wanted to stop worrying about her natural BBL (Brazilan Butt Lift), Kris is saying that she wanted to stop being concerned with her ample bum that was given to her by the universe and not by a doctor.
Thanks Shelli!
Amazing article! Love the details of sexual liberation, so seldom do we hear such an open point of view. Absolutely love it.
I’ve gotta say, Strap Week might be my favorite Theme Week ever at Autostraddle so far. Everything I’ve read has been so good, especially reading this, both of these writers totally got me convinced on their sides. The feature images are also so cool!
I! am! enjoying! all! of these articles so much!!!!!!
“I feel a smug sense of satisfaction knowing that my brain can help contribute to feelings of arousal, like I am the Charles Xavier of clapping cheeks.”
I think this is my favorite sentence I have ever read on this website, so fucking good
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