Results for: be the change
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The Unique Grief of Ending a BDSM Relationship
Breaking up is hard to do, but what do we know about breakups between Dominant and submissive? This is a personal exploration of how grief settles when the collar comes off.
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A Therapist on What You Need to Know About Your Own Mental Health in the Time of COVID19
We all must do the internal work of unpacking how the harms of our social structure have become internalized, have lived in our bodies, have shown in our relationships. We must allow ourselves to feel the weight of it.
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You Need Help: What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?
What is it you are unlearning? What are the narratives about yourself that you are unraveling from your heart like so much tangled yarn? And can you be gentle through the unraveling?
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Candy Corn Is Objectively Good, Discuss
Candy corn is a delicacy to be enjoyed one by one. Or one handful by one handful.
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Sunday Funday Is Excited for Dream Daddy Comics
A Black lesbian couple is changing the Palm Springs gay scene, a portrait series celebrating older trans people, the DNC adopted language to include non-binary people and more!
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Being Queer in My Mother Tongue
I keep looking for labels. When I first read about nonbinary identities, I think of my family, and whether there might exist a word in Polish that means the same thing.
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“Supergirl” Episode 516 Recap: Up, Up, and a Gay
Grieving the loss of her father, Alex goes into a VR simulation where she is Supergirl and Kelly had to fight to keep her from getting stuck there forever.
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“Riverdale” Episode 401 Recap: A Town in Crisis
The show’s season four premiere serves as a Luke Perry tribute and a reminder of the compelling themes pulsating beneath Riverdale’s chaos.
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COVID-19 Is Laying Bare the Vulnerabilities of Sex Workers, So Often Canaries in the Coalmine
Centering sex workers, and the hard won lessons that come with being a part of this community, are perhaps the most important steps we can take in an effort both to reduce harm, and to rebuild in the aftermath of COVID19.
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Queer Horoscopes for October 2019: What Scares You Teaches You What’s Safe
It’s Libra season, but wanting love and harmony doesn’t mean we know how to get it. This is a powerful time to face our shadows side.
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Four More Tech Tools to Help You Get Involved, Call for Change, and Resist Trump
Four more apps for resisting Donald Trump. Calls, kittens and boycotts.
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“Riverdale” Episode 402 Recap: Friendships and Queer Loneliness
The failures of family, the joys of friendship, and a nonsensical but incredible musical number—just another day in Riverdale!
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Meet You at Area 51
Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.
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“The L Word: Generation Q” Review: Something Old, Something New, as Much Queer Sex as You Remember
I loved Generation Q. I don’t know why I’m so nervous to say that out loud? I suppose because it’s The L Word. And that means there’s so much on the line for so many of us, but damnit — I really did love it.
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“Ek Ladki” Is the First Bollywood Lesbian RomCom — but the Lesbians Fall Flat
Why did this movie tank so hard that it was almost immediately out of theaters in America? Why did this not get the coverage or accolades it deserved for being the first mainstream Bollywood movie about a lesbian relationship?
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“Workin’ Moms”: Come For the Queerness, Stay for the Intimate and Chaotic Friendships
Also, this is a great show a great show to play Canadian Bingo with.
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Boobs on Your Tube: Okay, This “BH90210” Middle Age Bisexual Storyline Is Actually Really Great
Plus updates on Why Women Kill, Ambitions, Killjoys, and Bachelor in Paradise.
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Be the Change: Take Care of Your Community, Take Care of Yourself
When our communities are strong, we are strong. Let’s talk about supporting ourselves to support each other and vice versa.
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The Burlesque Show
Minutes before I saw Poison Ivory pour champagne down her back and watch it drip between her legs, I knew seeing this black burlesque performer would evoke Power.
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The 50 Best Queer Sex Toys
Autostraddle’s definitive list of the 50 best sex toys for queer sex.